When I go out with him I feel like he dosen't notice me standing beside him. He will look and stair at a girl for a long time.Is there something wrong with me is Im not doing something right.One time he told me ain't nothing wrong with looking.I told him it's all about respect.He shouldn't look at other girls when Im with him.He should do it when im not around.What should i do.Is im right.
2007-02-20 05:57:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
LOL my bf did that before. he stared like a deer in the frickin' headlights. what a nerd. Not to mention, she was way skinnier than me too. But she did look like a boring jew, so at least that was going for me. I think you should check out other guys when he's around, to get your sort of 'secret personal revenge'. Lol I know i will next time.........
2007-02-20 06:23:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since he's constantly looking at other women when you are around, he's not giving you the kind of respect that you deserve. Talk to him about that and be open and honest about the situation. Flip the script and see what he has to say about that. More than likely, he'll feel the same way you felt when he's looking at other females. If he still continues to disrespect you, it's time for you to let him go and meet new people. I hope my advice helps you. Good luck.
2007-02-20 14:08:40 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds extreme, but if you feel like he is not respecting the way you deserve, maybe you ought to let him go. It's ok to look every now and then, but when it's just blatant and "in your face", then he doesn't have that type of respect for you and you should let him go. Maybe he'll change after the fact.
If you want to show him how it feels, do the same thing to him. Look at all the good looking men out there, drool all over them in his face, and see how he likes it!
2007-02-20 14:03:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel dear.my husband does the same thing.and it's like if your really invisible.and when u tell tell them bout it the first thing that comes out of their mouth is "well i'm a man,what u expect".it hurts but i'm gettin used to it.at least he does'nt touch.if that was the case then we'll definately have a problem.so don't worry.as long as u know you're looking damn good too.then let him watch.hey the guys r probably checkin u out to.
2007-02-20 14:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by inquistive 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you, he wouldn't look at other women when you are standing there. I know if the show was on the other foot he would flip out. so flip the script. doll yourself up. Fix yourself up and look like the hot lady you are-make other men look at your booty and breasts, and be all smiley and flirting with them! see how he like it.
2007-02-20 14:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by marquella_la_nice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's something guys do............ it's that simple...........
2007-02-20 14:02:18 · answer #6 · answered by mdlbldrmatt135 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋