He's gay too, but JUST came out and says that he isn't ready for a boyfriend, but keeping this secret is killing me....
2007-02-20 05:12:34 · 14 answers · asked by Jack R 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Tell him. Don't bottle it up, it'll only give you stress and worry. You don't necessarily need to jump into a relationship right away but who knows, maybe he feels the same way about you and is too scared to tell you. :)
Good luck to you!
2007-02-20 05:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by Winette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have a crush on him without insisting that he reciprocate, that is, that you be "boyfriends." Tell him, just so he knows.
BTW, from my experience (or lack of it), before you fan any flames between you, you should try going out on a romantic date first. That doesn't mean you're committed to each other. A date can be just a date. But it's entirely different than just hanging out together as buds, believe me.
2007-02-20 05:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just say hey I am so glad you just came out and I do understand you are not ready for a boyfriend but I have been wanting to get down you pants and I would like to take you out on a date. No pressure.
Kiss him already!!
2007-02-20 05:24:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
only you are able to answer that question, existence is by no ability uncomplicated for a gay.however the way i see it you are able to tell her your the type you experience and probability comprimising your friendship or you are able to tell her your gay yet wait till you notice her reaction in the past expressing your emotions or you are able to not tell her. The question is will u be happier devoid of her as a chum and your homsexuality out in the open or will you be happier proceed to be pals yet save your feeling inner maximum. If she is a very sturdy buddy possibly she would be in a position to make certain your sexuality and you will proceed to be freinds. the region is an identical regardlessweather you're gay, yet till she is gay i advise you place aside your emotions in case you like the friendship to ednure. in case you're able to get it of your chest possibly tell her your gay yet no longer ur feeling for her. those are just some assistance as i mentioned only you additionally could make that determination.
2016-11-24 20:18:28 · answer #4 · answered by shepardson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't know you are gay, let him know. Be a good friend. You don't need to tell him that you lust for him. Take him to dinner or a movie or something you'd do with a regular date. If you are at dinner and feel the need to ask Yahoo! Answers what to do next, you shouldn't do anything else.
2007-02-20 05:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you understand that telling him could change your relationship dramatically, but still are willing to take the chance then go for it. I have had a couple of guys take that leap and tell me their feelings for me, but I can't say I've had the guts to ever do the same. I admire their boldness and it has brought us closer together in one case. Good luck to you.
2007-02-20 10:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by Liir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him. then you'll know if he likes you. he may not be ready for a boyfriend just yet, but he probably will be soon. and it's always nice to hear that someone is in love with you. tell him. you'll make his day and probably get a pleasant surpise. good luck!
2007-02-20 05:55:25 · answer #7 · answered by mimma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do it right away. He's just pretending and you go girl,make the first move. What's there to lose,remember he's your close friend,right? So much easier to presuade hahaha. Good Luck!
2007-02-20 05:17:59 · answer #8 · answered by javo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe in a round about way.
2007-02-20 05:49:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should tell him.
2007-02-20 06:50:04 · answer #10 · answered by Kedar 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋