I have a big crush on this girl at school, i need some advice!!!?
This girl is in my History class. She reminds me of my step-mom. She is great for my type!! However i try to avoid loking at her, but i cannot resist looking at her at once.
HOW CAN I START FLIRTING WITH HER WITHOUT CREEPING HER OUT?
HOW CAN I SPENT SOME-TIME WITH HER?
i am trying to talking to her however i think whatever i am doing is not working.
Just tell me what should i ask her.
HOW CAN I INTERACT WITH HER
2007-02-20 05:10:27 · 13 answers · asked by Sewer Tank 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
SHE IS CUTE!!
2007-02-20 05:12:14 · update #1
BE NORMAL~ lol Just be yourself, and like her for her.... If she likes you back it will be good. Just start talking to her and hinting... she should pick it up~
2007-02-20 05:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by irishcountrygal07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chicks love jocks and shmooz up to smart nerds for homework help. If this chick is hot and second to none. And you know you are going to be at the same school with her for the next several years. Then start making a difference. Now is not the time to make yourself look like a stumbling dork. Cause chicks remember your faults in such meaningless ways. Join a sport that involves a large student turnout, like basketball or football. Baseball is cool, you can train yourself with weights virtually all year around, and chicks love the delts and pecs. Then when you start making a name for yourself as a school stud, then make your move.
2016-05-23 22:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son does the same thing. I want to "knock him out" lol. One particular girl, he can't even be in the same room with, without turning 5 shads of red.
If you are constantly avoiding her, how are you ever going to get anywhere and you are creeping her out. Usually people get a sense when someone is looking at them, but then when you turn to look and they act like they weren't looking, that's creepy.
Start looking her straight in the eye and saying "hi". Act like you are comfortable with yourself and can handle whatever. Then start casual conversation and get to know her.
Right now, you are presenting yourself as a little creepy, turn it into more of a friend and slowly get where you want to go.
You have got to get past this sheepish stuff. You are at the easy part, having a relationship is way harder than being nice to someone.
2007-02-27 23:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by ggirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first just staring at someone will eventually lead to know where it all comes down to this were human and we cant read minds no matter how hard we try its just not possible, we can take an accurate guess but we can not know.... Meaning how is she suppose to know if you just look at her and sort of talk to her.. take it from me girls need more then just that. We need a reassurence like we need for you to acculey walk up to us and tell us. You are obvously not a bold guy meaning you do care if she rejects you and you do care about how your going to approch her etc... Thats a good sign... For starters I suggest you get her msn and start talking to her from there its waaaay easier.. and soon you guys will be talking more in person... Dont jump into asking her out unless your looking for a short term relationship... You need to acculey get to know this girl... what shes like etc.. personality basically,... Sometimes we make mistakes into judging before we acculey know and then once we know its a whole diffrent thing. Talk to her and get to know her (eigher on msn or in person or both lol, as long as your talking to her) FInd out if thats the girl you want to be with.... and if you like her and she likes you back then bravo match made in heaven... Sometimes flirting doesnt always work like this guy has been flirting with me for the past 3 years and hes still hasnt come out strait and told me he likes me but its sooooo obvious like some guys just really make it obvious but it does get creepy the best thing to do is to talk to her .... get that courage and just do it.. she will honeslty think your a creep or a pshyco if you do it the flirting way just talk to her gently with respect and she will respect you back. Be nice etc.... Girls love a nice guy... Just at least try you know at least... try to get to know her..
2007-02-20 05:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a difficult road. So use what you do know about her/her interests, to start a conversation w/ her. Since u r interested in her,you will be genuinely interested in what she says.So do pay attention,so that when u answer her you make sense.
Women do love/like compliments, we were created that way. And we (women) stay busy, to look nice, take care of ourselves.Only if you feel comfortable w/ this. I don't know if she's into girly things (i.e. makeup) or sports.
Since you're both in school, I'm sure there r x-tra cirricular activities u both r involved in. Invite her to yours or ask about hers.
Ask her out to eat.Every1 has to eat!!
A summary: her interests/talk to her/be genuine/pay attention/compliment/get 2 of u 2gether.
I have 2 daughters; 1 into sports and 1 into girly things.sporty girl outdoor date,girly girl dinner & a movie or shopping (haha).
Your approach matters to her, and your success depends on it also.
2007-02-20 06:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by BamCaliFlaVa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK well your problem is very common and i just had it about 1 month ago. then i got a detention had to hang after school and i say he was in drama and went in to watch the rehearsal then i helped em out and they declared me as the stage manager so i got to hang with him like almost everyday so you might want to see if she is in ne clubs and if so you can join it or something like that. if shes not in ne clubs then when shes not doing nething start talking to her. or wen you see her say something common like hey wats up then start a conversation. but remember you probably dont want to talk to her wen she is with somebody, because she would probably be distracted.
so good luck
2007-02-27 23:58:40 · answer #6 · answered by vallan1015 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try being friends with her first and talk. Then you will find out if you really like her and if you do ask her to go out with you.
2007-02-20 05:14:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo how old r u and is the girl shy or not?
if she aint shy then go up to her and be like was hannenin shawty. if she is then u gotta b the lil good boy and say yo or w/e
2007-02-22 11:51:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude calm down kk she's just a chic so dont get all worked up yet anyway you should just bump into her or something (but dont hurt her!) and play it cool
hint: girls like compliments on how they look
P.S. dont be nervous girls dont like that
2007-02-20 06:55:57 · answer #9 · answered by UndeadNitemare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Girls get tickled pink when you say I really like you then give her your number and run !
2007-02-22 06:44:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋