I have recently had a decrease in my sex drive (for what seems like no particular reason) so does anyone have any suggestions on how I can increase it? Any suggestions welcome!
2007-02-20 04:15:20 · 18 answers · asked by Cori 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
ok, anything except for porn though? Not that I don't like it , it's just that I don't want my bf to think I need porn to get turned on as it will leave him feeling inadequate. Any foods, techniques anything like that?
2007-02-20 04:25:47 · update #1
i'm afraid that you have to face the truth and that is that your boyfriend does not turn you on so call him friend and keep it moving
2007-02-20 05:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
Exercise. Perhaps weights in particular. As well as the endorphins, it stimulates testosterone production, and testosterone is the main controller of sex drive in both men and women (and men have 10 times as much. I wonder why they're so sex obsessed ...)
If porn works to put you in the mood, go with it. Rather then doing it furtively, just ask your bf if you two can watch some porn together. My guess is he'll be okay with it. Like, more then okay.
Other factors could be stress, changes in your relationship, etc. You state there seems to be 'no particular reason' though, so ... no suggestions there.
2007-02-20 08:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
M female friends all say that once they start having sex, they want more of it. Good sex that is. A few said they thought they had lost all desire for it, but once they started again, the old feelings came back in full force.
2016-05-23 22:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have never had this problem, but I do find that alcohol certainly helps, as does watching a film with a love scene in it whilst drunk. OR, look at a bit of porn, you might think grose,or you might be surprised, apparently a huge amount of us girlys do it now, I have had the odd peek I have to admit.
2007-02-20 04:20:34 · answer #4 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women's libido increases as so does their self worth-if you think you are someone special it will reflect in your sex drive because you will want a man who agree and is willing to show it. Firstly-make sure you are eating right-eat plenty of veggies and lean meats-try to lay off pork and beef if you can. Secondly, exercise to boost your energy because energy increases libido. Thirdly-make a point to make sure you look your best when you leave your home for ANYTHING! Keep your hair nice looking, face in good shape, nice clean clothes that flatter you-all these things that boost self confidence boost libido. Have your boyfriend if you have one or husband feed you chocolate. Chocolate is a natural aphrodisiac and antioxidant.
2007-02-20 04:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by marquella_la_nice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem but i had alot of tiredness and just loss of libido - i would get your blood checked cause it turns out mines was underactive thryroid - so just waiting now for the tablets to take effect and get my sex drive back to normal if not better.
2007-02-21 00:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by helen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could well be your age(I'm feeling the same lol)trying very hard to get it back(mine started a month ago) my docs put it down to being menopausal also doing to much at work and getting very stressed about it which is causing a vicious circle,I'm taking vitamins and thankfully have a wonderfull supportive partner.see what your doc says he may well run some blood tests to rule out anything nasty
2007-02-20 04:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by fatcat123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch some porn , Do you have a fantasy ? maybe you could try that out.
There's lots of things you could try .
Just think about things that really turn you on...............
You could alwaty Email me and ill try my best to Turn you on LOL :)
Hehe joking , Good luck love x
2007-02-20 04:21:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you.perhaps you are tired,anxious or stressed.just try releasing tension by relaxing and dont be expecting sex all the time.sex alone does not prove love
2007-02-20 08:45:59 · answer #9 · answered by ETHEL M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Introduce some variety and danger in to the proceedings.
2007-02-20 04:19:37 · answer #10 · answered by A True Gentleman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex more often, sometimes even when you are not in "the mood", increases your sex drive.
2007-02-20 04:30:23 · answer #11 · answered by swanser 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋