i am 5 weeks pregnant and i was just wondering if anyone can help with the best way to tell my parents?
2007-02-20 04:14:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
well i recently found out i was pregnant on valentines day, i am 19 and have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. i wrote my parents a letter saying dear grandma n grandpa i cant wait to meet you and stuff like that i wrapped the pregnancy test in a diaper and placed all of it in a lil valentines day gift bag. i was scared shitless of their reaction but they were not mad at all they were so excited. wrap up a bib and a cigar that say i love grandma and worlds greatest grandpa leave it on the table when you go out so when you get back they will already of had time to think it over. ! unfortunately i did miscarry yesterday, but congrats to you and do not wait to tell your parents and get to a doctor as soon as possible to make sure everything is ok . good luck =)
DO NOT TELL THEN YOUR SORRY YOU LET THEM DOWN! that girl doesnt kno what shes talking about. if your excited about this baby then you tell them you are NOt GOIN to let them down. tell them you want this and that you know you will be the greatest mommy you possibly can be. just because your pregnant does not mean you committed a crime or something.! Just remmber your parents love you it may come as a shock to them but whatever the reaction they will get over it and be by yourside theyre your parents thats what theyre here for =)
2007-02-20 05:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by slee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! It's nothing to be ashamed of, and you shouldn't be afraid of telling your parents. You should start wearing paternity clothing around 5 weeks pregnant, to ensure your baby safety. You're mom is probably just accepting the fact that you've had relations with a boy without her knowing, and at such a young age. Also, teen pregnancy isn't in every mother's dreams, so she is probably just accepting that. Give her some time, and in a couple of weeks she will be back to normal, and she will be excited for a new arrival of a family member. I'm sure. Ps: She's probably accepting the fact that she's soon going to be a Grandma, too. ;) Good luck & Congratulation's on your pregnancy.
2016-05-23 22:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same situation! i figured i'd wait for a while before i tell my parents (or anyone), at least a month, because they're under a lot of stress & (god forbid!) if anything happens i don't want them to have to deal with it.
i've been trying to find a way, i've thought about getting a card, or a baby rattle or bib or shirt that says "i luv gramma" or something. or maybe a t-shirt for them saying #1 grandparent or something like that. but definitely do it in person if you can, even if you don't get anything (assuming you don't live across the country!)
good luck! and congrats!!!!
2007-02-20 04:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest making them a dinner or taking them out which ever best suits you, and just break it to them gently. Tell them your afraid yourself, and you realize this could affect your relationship but this baby is coming none the less and you really need them right now, your sorry to have let them down but you love them.
2007-02-20 04:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by Tabatha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess this is not a planned pregnancy, or you are a child. If so, tell them right away, as they NEED to know. Don't worry about delivery, just go home from school and TELL THEM!
2007-02-20 04:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when my little sister told my mom that i might be pregnant she fliped but never hit me because theres nothing that she could do about it she told me that if i would have kept it from her that she wouldnt have been able to trust me in whats bothering me so sit your parents down and tell them whats going on you need to start taking care of your self
2007-02-20 04:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them dont be sceard because you gotta tell them sometime and they have to get used to the idea of you having a baby no matter how you tell them wont make them feel any diffrent so you may as wel just come out with it
2007-02-20 04:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly talk to about have gran-children and then let it out slow!!
HOW DID YOU GET PREGNANT IN THE FIRST PLACE!1AND HOW OLD ARE YOU!
2007-02-20 04:28:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL YOUR MOM OR WHICH EVER PARENT THAT LIKES YOU THE MOST THEN SIT THEM DOWN AND TELL THEM EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENED. THEN LET THAT ONE PARENT TELL THE OTHER PARENT WITH YOU IN THE ROOM BUT MAKE SURE YOU NEVER TELL THEM ITS THERE FAULT TAKE THE RESPONCIBILITY AND DEAL WITH WHAT YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH!!!
WHAT EVER HAPPENS BREATH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-20 04:24:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well are u underage? like a young teenager? and ur scared...
or are u older and married and just looking for a fun and creative way to tell them?
should add more details
2007-02-20 06:14:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋