I saw a guy on a dating web site and emailed him. We talk through email. We haven't met yet, and only live with in 30 minutes of wach other and work even closer. Our jobs and after work lives keep us pretty busy. We just email back and forth to chit chat and laugh. We have a few common interest which is always good. All we are, is friends and that is cool. But why is it that I always feel like I have to initiate the conversation. Once I do this we have some good laughs. I think only 2 times in the last 4 months has he started conversation. Once though I was very impressed was at Christmas time. He has told me he's shy and doesn't really pick up the fact that women may be interested in him. Should I just keep it in mind that he is shy? Or let him start the next conversation? I may be a while waiting for that one. I know alot of guys aren't into email. Not sure what to do really or what to think. There is no relationship but frienship here.
2007-02-20 03:55:18 · 4 answers · asked by beaches 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
keep chatting what does it matter if you always start!
just be you and the fact that he is shy.... it may well mean that you will have to make the first move anyway.... just have fun with it!
2007-02-20 04:17:02 · answer #1 · answered by overthemoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is just an email friendship, doesnt matter if you are going to meet or not, it doesnt matter if you or he starts the conversation.
You are both friends, nothing more.
Unless its a prerequisite that all men should take control and be the one to make moves in conversation and whatever, dont let something so small as keeping score on who starts something.
Thats petty.
Doesnt seem you are into shy guys, but again, you are just friends...nothing more.
2007-02-20 12:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not set up a meet for coffe in a public place. I hate just emailing, and even with a female friend, it is nice to meet in person sometimes if you are close enough.
2007-02-20 12:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by pedohunter1488 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he has a girlfriend.
2007-02-20 12:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by Maria K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋