why do people picks at me just because i'm a gothic?

Question

i mean i dont have to do anything to them they just say that i can put a spell on them and then they call me ugly and you know what i dont care what people say about because i'm happy just being me.

Answer 1

People "picks" at you? lol......

By dressing that way, expect that kind of reaction, hon. Lets face it, you are asking for it!
Now quit your whining and deal with it!

Or stop being a goth. we always have choices

Answer 2

Most people tend to fear what they don't understand, and have a hard time understanding or even realizing their fears. It's always easier to pick on someone else to raise your own self esteem than to try and understand the person behind the clothes, piercing, tattoos, make-up or other devices used to create for ones self a sense of individuality. When the only real unique thing is the person them self. Whatever your idiom, remember that you cannot be more or less than you. No one else has the ability to view your life as you do, all they can see is the external reflection of what you share with them. Some of those reflections you have control of, and some you do not. However, remember that the projection you give to the world has it's costs. Unlike a large breasted woman who wonders why she's always getting stared at. The woman or young lady or man for that matter who dresses provocatively. Has through that action created a situation in which they are inspiring a reaction. Though it is unfair that you should always have to defend you actions, you will find that to be the case in all areas of you life.

Answer 3

You go ahead being you. Yeah, to me you may appear different, but so does everyone else. I grew up just fine. As a matter of fact, some Goth's, have been some of the most intelligent, insightful and sensitive people which I have ever met. Go ahead be different, be yourself, it makes the world a much more interesting place

Answer 4

B/c theres tons of foolish people on this planet who don't get what Goths are and so they think the sterotypes are true. Just don't give them the time of day and be yourself.

Answer 5

They are ignorant and miserable. Misery loves company. They're the ones that are ugly to put someone else down.

Answer 6

Because most of the people who pick on goths are ignorant and stupid. And most of the time, they're the dumb cheerleaders...

Dont be afraid to be different!

Answer 7

MAYbe, if you had paid more attention in writting class your question would make more sense.
Plus if you had put as much effort into school work as you do on dressing Goth, you wouldn't be a loose Goth.
Sorry, but you asked.

Answer 8

be strong in who and what you are, and don't let those people get to you, they are just closed minded and are doing things out of not understanding who you are but instead what you look like to them on the outside, just be you and continue to praise who you are inside and don't worry so much about negativity that you may encounter from other people, because at the end of that day only your opinion of yourself matters and noone elses....

Answer 9

thats the way it should be. dont listen to what other ppl have to say about u. as long as ur happy thats all that matters.

Answer 10

When you intentionally act and dress different you put yourself up for ridicule or praise, in your case its ridicule. Don't act all hurt you did it to yourself. Not saying its good or bad, but don't cry about it, people are sheep except when there's a wolf around, then they're uh.. not sure where that metaphor was going...