2007-02-20 02:16:08 · 13 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
If it's for your own good then you should not feel guilty,not knowing what the decision was i can't really comment,cos i don't know why it's upset other people.
2007-02-20 02:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by heebygeeby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are your decisions made with disregard for the feelings, welfare, and rights of others? If not, realize that others may not always agree with what you feel is right for you. You might also consider that what you do will impact the lives of others in ways you didn't realize when you made your decision. Whether you feel guilty is up to you.
2007-02-20 02:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by rico3151 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't own other peoples feelings, they do!
The biggest crimes in society are the ones commited by our loved ones, friends and co-workers.
Leaving you alone to be you is love.
People like to control with guilt!!! Don't let them do it!!!! Be nasty if you have too. It's your rights as a human being (given by God to all). They don't have the right to revoke or control your will!
Don't take upon your shoulders the emotions of someone else. They own it... not you.
If they don't understand this is "your life" and decision then they don't understand. It is within "them" that thier struggle lies, not within you!
You stop taking ownership of other people's emotion's and will.
Now then, if your decision will "harm" in any way they are quite right to try to stop you. That is love also
2007-02-20 02:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In only one circumstance due I see a problem in behaving in a way that benefits yourself and that is if a child is dependent upon you. If a child is involved then it is the needs of the child that comes first before your own. Other than that, generally, you are responsible for yourself to make decisions that will mould the person you will become, not that of outsiders. Your successes and failures will belong to you.
2007-02-20 02:39:54 · answer #4 · answered by bridget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
difficult to say without knowing the details, why where these people upset, is it that you have done wrong by them or are they concerned by your choices in life because they think you will get hurt.or is it that you want to move away and start a new life and they are being selfish cos they will miss you. dont understand why you would feel guilty if you have done nothing wrong.
2007-02-20 02:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself if you really have no choice other than the decision you made. if they are purely just selfish decision that benefits you but not others than i guess it is good that you feel guilty. the moment you stop feeling guilt may be hinting that you are more more self-centered.
2007-02-20 02:25:49 · answer #6 · answered by jane★marple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in one's life we will encounter difficulties in making decisions every now and then especially if it involves other people. we try to please everyone but life is not like that. move on... have faith in yourself that the decisions you've made are for your own good and stand up to that decision. if later on you realized you've made the wrong one... this is the time to learn from your mistakes. everyday life is always a process of learning.
2007-02-20 05:26:39 · answer #7 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm very very sorry on your loss. I misplaced my little al nicely it's going to be a month on Thursday through my determination to take him to be neutered. He died on the instant after the anaesthetic grow to be administered. I nevertheless blame myself to on the present time. the 1st few weeks i could no longer bypass away the domicile through fact i could no longer provide up crying. in reality that grieving a puppy decrease than wide-spread situations can particularly situations be the comparable if not greater suitable than grieving a human observing the bond you had with your kitty. even though once you desperate which you're feeling grow to be incorrect and led to your kittys death then guilt comes into the equation. It does get greater powerful in time have faith me i can now bypass away the domicile. you will consistently think of roughly your little kitty considering you enjoyed him and finally you will understand which you probably did the wonderful element. in case you probably did no longer placed your kitty asleep you will have watched him go through uncontrollably. you probably did your kitty a considerable favour in which you left him bypass with some dignity. Your final thoughts of your kitty would have been of him in ache. you are able to undergo in strategies your little kitty with happiness now and he's now in animal heaven looking down on you. you need to grieve now and permit your self to cry considering you have misplaced somebody which you enjoyed. while the grief passes you will sense greater powerful.
2016-10-16 02:23:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologise. Once they've understood they will pay you back in some horrible way, and then you'll be even and the guilt will stop.
2007-02-20 02:30:57 · answer #9 · answered by MI5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh well. at least you done the right thing for yourself.
think of number one. if other people are upset then tell them to sort it out
2007-02-20 02:25:12 · answer #10 · answered by Gary F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋