We've been together like 7 months already. We deeply fell in love with each other. Is it too early to be making love? I am 21 and she is 22. She thinks she is ready. I am ready too but just wondering, is it too early to be making love?
2007-02-20 02:12:21 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You are asking the right question. But you're asking the wrong people...
2007-02-20 02:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by Liza 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
7 Months is a long time to be together and not take the plunge. I guess it really depends on your reasons for not doing so already. If it is because you wanted to wait until you were married, then maybe you should wait.
If it is because her father is very protective and has an arsenal of weapons at his disposal, that I would definitely wait!
If you both truly love each other, and don't have inhibitions about pre marital relations, that I cannot see why you shouldn't.
Don't just read this, nod twice and go jump in the sack. Wait until it is right for both of you. When it happens, it should be spontaneous and memorable.
Also, don't forget protection. The pill is not always 100% and the after alternatives are certainly not pleasant. One of my friends ended up as a father after his first time, so unless your ready for that kind of responsibility, might be best to drop into a convenience store and blush. ;)
2007-02-20 10:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by Nax 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ready is a relative term. Are you ready to commit to one another for the rest of your life? or are these feeling going to go away in a few months and you will want to move on>.. I dont' care what they say for every person you have deeppersonal relationship with you leave a part of yourself. There is an emptiness when you keep giving and giving with no committments, no trust,and no stability.
2007-02-20 10:18:35 · answer #3 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I admire that you are in love and have not "made love" yet.
It sounds like the 2 of you have taken your time and it isn't just physical. No one can decide for you and our advice isn't really needed. Since you are even questioning it you might just want to wait a little longer. What ever the 2 of you decide be safe and always be prepared. One day you'll be in each others arms and it will just all come together.....be prepared & safe.
Congratulations on finding LOVE!
2007-02-20 10:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by Ms.T 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking if you should, then I would say your not ready. Somewhere you are having doubts about it. I think it's great you guys haven't yet. Most people hop to it relatively soon after meeting. But you're both at an age where you should know what you want to do. If it leads to it, fine, if it doesn't, it will be better later when and if you do decide.
2007-02-20 10:24:48 · answer #5 · answered by punkin_eater26 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both believe that you are ready, then you shouldn't be asking anyone else!! It's what you believe is right. And ask yourself, if after you do have sex, if either of you will regret it? If no, then I would say go ahead!!!! You both are at the age where you can both make good choices...you know right from wrong, so you two be the judge!
Good luck!
2007-02-20 10:19:33 · answer #6 · answered by dreamcatcher 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its up 2 the two of u to know when ur ready just use protection when u do.
2007-02-20 10:20:34 · answer #7 · answered by Mel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at your age. If you were 16, then yes, but 22 is fine.
2007-02-20 10:16:05 · answer #8 · answered by Jensenfan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
unless you wanted to wait until you are married, no, you have given yourselves time to get to know eachother, and you are truley in love, it was never based on sex because obviously you havent had it yet,i say if you both feel you are ready go ahead, but if you arent wait until you are married.
2007-02-20 10:16:53 · answer #9 · answered by puppy love 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if yall are ready if yall ready but use protection cuz you dont want a child.
2007-02-20 10:20:59 · answer #10 · answered by Kris S 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Jeesus, man... talk about a faaar too difficult question for Yahoo! to answer. Thats your decision, incredibly personal and individual.
2007-02-20 10:17:26 · answer #11 · answered by tyler 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋