My husband & I both share the fantasy of being with another woman. I'm all about it, very curious and he is really into the idea of watching...(and I'd LOVE to watch him with her...) but just not sure how to go about meeting someone that has no attachments to either one of us, and someone who is not a risk either....we've thought about a Swingers club, but he's not ready to share me with a man yet... recommendations?
2007-02-20 02:07:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I should add that both my husband & I are extremely comfortable & secure in our love for each other... which is exactly why the idea of sharing doesn't create jealously... Please, I'm not asking anyone to pass judgment here.
2007-02-20 02:53:57 · update #1
there are online sites for that adult friend finders for one
2007-02-20 02:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can go to a swingers club without it being 2 couples.
it would be quite easy to find u a lady there.
just make it clear that u want a woman only.
u should have no trouble.
but be sure that this is something u really want.
jealousy is a serious thing!
sure it sounds really hot but unless u both are very secure i would think twice.
im not by any means saying ''dont do it''
but just make sure u wont regret it.
also if u go to a swingers club,
u may hear about a sex club.
they are very discreet ,
so if u go there,
u can actually have sex at the club no strings attached.
u dont have to feel funny because they have all kinds of rules in effect and thats exactly what people go there for.
=]
2007-02-20 02:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by Savannah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good question! I have found that people at swinging scenes are very open-minded and flexible; I would try that, because you may well find a couple where the other man would agree either not to be there the first time, just watch, etc.
2007-02-20 02:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been the first experience for several women. I have met some really cute girls in bars and especially when I'm out partying and dancing with my girlfriends. Women hit on me all the time. So that is probably a place where you can find someone or there's always me. I'm always interested in being the third or a first F/F experience for someone.
2007-02-20 02:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by Ronni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I are actors and have found that actresses usually find Jamie attractive and approach us if we have ever thought of doing it. You might have luck in the local acting community.
B
2007-02-20 02:15:09 · answer #5 · answered by Bacchus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Add simple as Craigslist personals
2016-02-20 22:32:08 · answer #6 · answered by Cynthia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say don't do it with him unless he will do it with another man cause it is only fare but myself don't think i could do it cause if u really love the person u could not see them with some one esle
2007-02-20 02:46:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we share fantasy to my wife want to do the same ting
2007-02-20 02:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by raul v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just find another bi hoe like yourself?
2007-02-20 06:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by indrep33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.craigslist.org
2007-02-20 03:48:50 · answer #10 · answered by riboflavin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋