I am 17 years old and 8mths pregnant and my boyfriend is always touching me and it feels very uncomfortable, and its really getting on my nerves. And when I told him to stop he got mad. He makes me have sex with him and if I say no I dont want to he would pin me down on the bed and get on top of me.If we were to go out somewhere I did something he didnt like he would say that im pushing his buttons and if I dont stop he was gonna punch me in my face. He would say something crazy to me because he know that I would stop doing what ever I was doing. He would say stuff to me like if I dont get my a** over to him I would never see my unborn child. Or if he was trynna have sex with me he would say staystill before I put my knee in your stomach and kill your baby. I want to leave him but im scared to. If I leave him I dont think that I would be nothing
2007-02-20 01:57:26 · 13 answers · asked by PIE 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Get away from him NOW! And as far away as possible!
2007-02-20 02:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by Doug H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that ...When you are pregnant your hormones go bananas all over and sex is the last thing you want to do or think about and it is perfectly normal.Specially at 8mth...You do not need ANYBODY to feel you ARE someone.He is very disrespectful to you and does not understand the power of being a father or the fact the you are carrying HIS baby.I can't understand how he can threat to harm your baby...don't ever allow anyone to talk to you like that honey.First is your safety and the baby's.He is a negative influence in your life. Just imagine what kind of a father he will be if he doesn't care for the baby now and wants to kill your unborn?He is insane.Leave him. Make a new life, a safe life for you and your baby.Your child will thank you.
2007-02-20 02:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes very abusive I would move back in with my parents or report it theres domestic abuse hot lines Or here in Ohio we have a place called Project woman for battered and raped women. The # is 937(327-3881) that is the # for the one locally u may be able to call it and get a shelter near you. They will house you and provide a safe haven.I know you may love him but hes already threating you and your unborn child. It could only be a matter of time before he actually tries to kill you both.You are a better person than that and no-one deserves any type of abuse. sounds to me like he is mentally abusive too. You are something you are a human being. your gonna be a mother for you and your baby's sake please get some help.
2007-02-20 02:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by chelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him now!
You wouldn't be nothing, you would be you again, as by the sounds of it you haven't been able to be you around this man. A man doesn't make you who you are, you do!
I'm sure you will have friends and family around you to give you support and help when your baby is born.
And if you're too scared to leave for you, think of your baby. Do you really want him/her to be growing up around someone like that. Take your chance now and get out, he is nasty!
If you live with him, take your things while he is not there or get someone else to do it for you so you do not have to deal with a big confrontation as this will cause more stress, which you don't need. Then if he can control himself to talk to you properly then talk after everything has calmed down.
Good luck and speak to your family about this, they can and will help x
2007-02-20 02:06:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are being honest and this is not a joke....YOU NEED TO LEAVE. Talk to your parents and your family. This is a very serious matter. It will not get better and it will not stop. Chances are that it will actually get worse. It is your decision if you want to put yourself in this situation, but your child has no choice. You must make the choices for your baby and he/she deserved much better...and so do you!
This guy does not make WHO you are....you need to get some professional help and possibly even contact the police.
If this is how he is now....he will get worse. He could kill you or your baby.
DO SOMETHING NOW before it is too late...please!
2007-02-20 02:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going to say this is normal for a young man to want sex all the time as mine just got over that but you know sweetie. You know its wrong. PLEASE look at the bigger picture. there is an adoring man out there somewhere for u. what if he does kill ur baby? who will u have left? This is an exciting time of your life, but dont be scared. just do what u have to do and PLEASE do the right thing! ur not silly but he thinks u r. dont prove him right! if u leave him u will be FREE to do what u want! how exciting would that be! and no abuse, no yelling just peace and quiet for u to enjoy ur baby!u r something. u r a mummy! good luck and do the right thing!!! xox
2007-02-20 02:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey you are in a very abusive relationship, he has raped you, and he is mentally abusive as well, he has you "traped" so you feel like you cant leave, when the truth is you can and you should, think about what he is doing to you, what makes you think he wont do these things to your child? you need to talk to the police or a support group immediatly and get him out of the picture it will be better for both you and your child, could possibly save your lives.
please get help with this!!
2007-02-20 02:04:00 · answer #7 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really should not be putting up with that kind of abuse! If he is threatening you and you unborn child (even if he is trying to get you to stop doing something) that is WRONG!!!! and you are something without him, and probably better off with out him! good luck!!!
2007-02-20 02:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to separate yourself from him, and get a restraining order through the police department. He's trying to manipulate you through fear, and your staying with him is only empowering him. If he does happen to rape you, report it to the police - and be sure to testify against him in court.
2007-02-20 02:06:18 · answer #9 · answered by voxninerbox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find your closest, parent, relative, friend, anyone! and get the hell out of there.
if not for you then for your baby's sake honey.
cause i swear it'll only get worst.
i'm sure you love him and you want your child to know his/her father.
but this is just not good at all.
stay strong. i'd love to hear how you're doing.
i really hope you get out and you and your baby find safety and happiness.
keep me posted! i'll be praying for you.
2007-02-20 02:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋