So theres this girl....shes been flirting/talking to me for two years now on myspace...im 23 shes 25...she was talking to me the whole 6 months i had a gf....and after it she really helped me out...we talk on the phone sometimes...she now has a gf but writes me everyday saying shes just waiting for me to do something about us....shes in VA im in PA...shes a great great girl...i dont know much about her though but i like when we talk...i dont know what to do...i think this little crush is getting deeper then just a crush....is this retarded or should i persue her....ahhhh
2007-02-20 01:42:02 · 10 answers · asked by Hen 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Same...my aunt and uncle also met online.....USA/OZ......If you have been talking on phone and writing then you are getting to know each other some...as long as honesty is there...take a little longer, get to know her more, get photos that show her as she is in her life, then go meet her if you are still emotionally attracted to the type of person she is........hope it works out for you as everyone deserves happiness.....even your present partners, they dont need to be...second best either.....
2007-02-20 01:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by ozzy chik... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy. If it is meant to be, then things will develop. Don't rush things. Sometimes things can be over quicker than when they started. In other words, don't pack up and move or make any sudden commitments. You say that this is a "little crush", so it sounds like there is plenty of room (and time) for growth.
Also, if she already has a GF, do you want to be involved in any break-up? It could be that she is using you as an excuse to dump the GF. If she is bored with this one, how long will it be before she is on Myspace talking to someone else about you?? Things to think about!
2007-02-20 09:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by SB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I make it a rule to never date anyone who is involved with someone but seems to be looking for someone new. There is a breed of person out there that goes from person to person without a break between. Y'know, the ones who won't end a relationship before they have a new one ready. Because this is a behavior pattern it isn't likely to change. So don't date this type without preparing yourself for some pain.
2007-02-20 09:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by dave k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is able to drop her current partner for you.
When you become her current partner, how easy will it be for her to drop you? What makes you any different?
I wouldn't persue her, you can see a trait in her, just from reading the above. People dont see this, if someone is able to cheat on their partner, whats stopping them cheating on you.
Avoid people like that, it makes life a lot less painful.
2007-02-20 09:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by Occult NZ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say she has a girlfriend now, and it seems like she wants to be with you but that would be cheating with her girlfriend and that means she would cheat on you. Is that what you want? Just be friends with her and the right person will come along for you.
2007-02-20 09:48:10 · answer #5 · answered by Springldy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Persue her....my Uncle and Aunt met online and they are soooo happy. Go for it...what do you have to lose???
2007-02-20 09:44:54 · answer #6 · answered by ~J*me~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll stay exciting if you just keep it on the internet. hehe
2007-02-20 09:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's retarded.
2007-02-20 09:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by Emily 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
go for it as long as your heart feels warm
2007-02-20 10:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
more like retared
2007-02-20 15:52:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋