2007-02-20 01:36:46 · 14 answers · asked by Lavender 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you have good reason to suspect something-I say Yes. It's not like they are going to tell you! Only if you have very good reason to believe they are cheating, though. At least then you'll know.
2007-02-20 01:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For you to do this, suggests there is suspicion towards your partner....if so, then check the handphone. Be prepared for alot of tall tales if in fact, he or she is cheating.
2007-02-20 01:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to "check up" on your man, then you shouldn't be together anyway. If you feel that someone is cheating on you, go with that instinct and move on from there. What are you going to accomplish by snooping through someone's stuff. You are just adding misery to agony. If you don't trust your spouse, then there is no marriage. Thank you and good luck.
2007-02-20 01:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have been thinking of that, you have gone too far in excepting what your spouse has been doing. No doubt you have been through this before, why are you putting up with all the mess? If you have to stoop this low, you know what it's time for? without me even saying it..
2007-02-20 02:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by Hummbaba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, let's do that. Then we can go hire a private detective to follow them or put a little homing device on them to see where they are at all times. Hey how about trust? If you don't have it for your partner than either don't marry em or divorce them and stop obsessing.
2007-02-20 01:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by MrNiceGuy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No ask him for permission he might just let you see it if he don't it does not mean he is hiding anything it might mean is is dissapointed that you might not trust him. Talk to your spouse before you decide anything. Ask yourself would you like it if he pry into your things looking for evidence keep it real would you really like it even though you might not have nothing to hide?
2007-02-20 01:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by crystal_clear_0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tought my x was cheating on me too. turns out that he was. so i thing that maybe u should just to konw but don't get caught. besides you'll never know for sure. but if u see a girls number in there. don't get upset at first besides it might be just a friend. casually make covo with your spouse and just bring up that name and then see how he reacts to it.
2007-02-20 01:41:17 · answer #7 · answered by jennifer M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The day I have to start checking to see if my husband is cheating is the day I know we need to either get counseling or call it a day.
2007-02-20 01:40:27 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you have a good reason to suspect him, I don't see a problem with verifying your info with his phone calls.
If there's not a strong reason to suspect him of anything, then don't go looking.
2007-02-20 01:44:23 · answer #9 · answered by Nasubi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sure...it's always good for a relationship to add an element of distrust. And, you won't mind if he checks your phone, reads your e-mails, or has you followed...
2007-02-20 01:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋