This lady was so persistent that she even go on-line to chat with my husband after my husband promised me that he will quit contacting her upon my request. Maybe going on-line could have been suggested by my husband. (Info: previously both of them used to sms flirtatious messages which I put a stop to my husband).
I thought of calling her up to warn her not to flirt and I do not want my husband to know about it.
Any good and safe suggestions? (Note: My family is rather conservative and I try not to upset them).
Hope to hear from Singaporean family, too.
2007-02-20 01:36:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why don't you get online pretend you are your husband see what she says then get offline then back on with her and tell her off then if she has plans with your husband let him have it also
2007-02-24 03:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is not the lady it is your husband. You have no control of this situation. If he stops with her I am sure he can find some one Else. If your husband is flirting with her as well then why are you mad at her. Resolve this in your own home. If you call or contact her what do you think she is going to say? She is not your friend and could care less that the guy she is being flirtatious with is married. What's the point.
2007-02-27 16:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your husband about it again. Maybe if you persist too, your point will be made.
Conservative or not, do what you have to do to save your family and your marriage. If you have to call her up and tell her to stop doing what she is doing - do it! But if you can talk to your husband first and put an end to it, then leave it be.
Or another option would be to bring it to the attention of one of his close friends or relatives whom he respects and listens to. If you tell them about it and they tell him it's worrying you and putting a strain on your marriage, maybe he'll listen to this friend. A lot of people don't want to involve extra people, so this option is totally optional, and something I may not try myself. But just trying to help you.
Hope this helped!
2007-02-20 09:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by ♥LadyC♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I no longer go to the chat rooms because of this problem some maried men are so persistant wanting to meet with you and always their wives don't understand or can't have sex anymore some kind of excuse for their wandering the internet just makesit easier for people to break their marriage vows is all
2007-02-25 07:39:13 · answer #4 · answered by wildirishrose19522000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you want to hear from another Singaporean. I'm sorry that I'm not. But my advice is to go with your instincts. If you think you should call her to get your point across than do it. she obviously thinks your subservient and too nice and sweet to even go there and most Singaporeans are which is a good thing Except for right now...and I think you know that. shock her. Let her know your not playing with her. Who cares if he finds out. He' not really caring about you finding out about there relationship. This is not a time to think about anyone elses feelings. Especially if they are not thinking about your feelings. Go all out imbarras the **** out of her. let her know what she really is...a ho. don't cry...they will take it as weakness. get mad. handle your buisness.
2007-02-28 00:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by Jade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you should believe your husband when he says he will not do this again and if you need to contact the other woman then do it by email or by phone. by the way he can block her from flirting if he wants and chooses too this way she can not even get through to flirt with him.
2007-02-20 09:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a man really someone you want to stay with? You shouldn't have to ASK him not to flirt with & contact this woman. If you've already discussed it, and he knew it upset you, he should have STOPPED contacting her....it sounds like he just changed the way he reaches her.
2007-02-27 21:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by gina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋