Why some husbands always want appreciation but do not give due respect to their wives? Why do they have so muc

Question

Why do they have a big ego?????

Answer 1

they want appreciation but fail to give it, because of selfishness, and not realizing that they are actually hurting the other person, caused by being too self absorbed, and having no idea or care that they are disrespecting their wives.

Answer 2

As, I was reading your question, it seemed that you hit the nail on the spot. I have been Married for more than Forty yrs. and I am an old pro. when it comes to a Man's ego, my Husband has always been the same, he never hid the way he was, so, I married him with all his defects, because I Loved him a lot, and still do. If you think that with time your Husband is going to change, think again, what he needs is for you to keep telling him, that you want a little consideration on his part, and not to be thinking of what he wants, because you are an important part to him. I wish I had done that yrs, back but, I have always been happy with my Husband even though he has a lot of imperfections, but so do I, so that makes us even. Do not let your husband, take you for granted, because you are an important part of his life, and do not let him forget it.

Answer 3

Wives should be give respect always/ if someone is not doing that then there seems to be some missing link

Pl try to find out may be u hve the answeror eleborate ur question Best of luck

Answer 4

Men can be like little children they want and want, but like little children need to be taught what they can and cannot get away with. My husband is an Aries and his ego is HUGE. I downplay a lot of the time, and then I'll do something like a little note in the lunch. It's all a give and take.

Answer 5

Their mothers most probably! It must be a bit of a minefield trying to raise a child of the opposite sex particularly now that fathers have largely been cut out of the process.

Answer 6

Because they are selfish and celf centered and have no reguards or respect for anyone else or their feelings at all. Some women are like this too. There needs to be mutual respect in a relationship and marriage to make it work.

Answer 7

ALL husbands want their wives to appreciate them, not only in their heart but also by words and action. All men are proud in spirit, that is the nature of men. But the reason they want to be appreciated by their wives is simply because they want to be a 'hero' in the eyes of their wives, and in their heart want their wives to admire their masculinity. If their wives give them this much needed sincere appreciation, they in turn will respond in a tender-loving manner to their wives.

But if the wife brings down her man and has a negative attitude towards him frequently, he will not feel tenderly towards her. By nature, men feel much stronger in the presence of women who seem to need their protection and will care for her, even to die for her if need be IF she is able to bring out this loving-tenderness in him.

Of course, a woman who is often negative towards her husband cannot expect him to be very loving-tender towards her. Understand your man, and he will do anything for you. :)

Answer 8

They are led to believe that there desires are the only thing that matters! Look at a fat pot bellied, bald, bushy eyebrow ed, stinky, over the hill old slob who thinks his wife should be in great shape and always look sexy for him!!! Omg what a joke!

Answer 9

I hear this from my wife alot. The only thing I can come up with is that men aren't aprreciated enough by their wife, or men are really self-involved. It is probably a little bit of both.

Answer 10

You know I wonder all the time what my husbands mom did to him to make him think he is everything mine is actually jealous of our kids it seems like it's like he's a baby or something I'm so sick of it I want to leave but I have to wait til my youngest get's in school.