What if you found out that your significant other had been posing in adult magazines, without you knowing about it? What would you do?
2007-02-20 01:13:08 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Demand at least half of the $$$$........lol
2007-02-20 01:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would decide which is more offensive, that he was nude in the a magazine or that he was hiding things from me and lying to me. For me, it would be the hiding and lying. If we are "partners" we are supposed to know everything about each other and share everything. If he wanted to pose nude, he could have asked me and maybe I would be okay with it, maybe not. But since he didn't consult me - I would have to leave him. If he lied about that, what else would he, could he be lying about. That thought would forever sever any trust I could have in him. No trust equals no relationship.
2007-02-20 01:21:23 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! I guess that depends on your relationship. Had you both made the decision to together, that's one thing. But not being aware, that to me is deception. Personally I believe a marital relationship is sacred and the nakedness should be kept special with one another - or rather the pictures? Nothing wrong with having some fun but lying about would have me concerned there's more to the story! Good Luck.
2007-02-20 01:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by dane2mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to calm down and then think. Maybe his got a good reason why his doing it.
( When you talk to him, talk to him in a calm voice. Don't let the anger comes first.)
Second, sit down and have a talk with him. Ask him the reason.Communication do magic in a relationship.
If his reason is acceptable to you then no problem but if not then you have to tell him that you dont like it. Let him choose, your marriage or his "posing career".
For me, I don't like anybody other than me, to see my partner's naked body.
2007-02-20 01:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to buy me something nice with the money she got from the magazines.
2007-02-20 01:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I'd first be proud of her. She's way too conservative in dress. Then, probably because of all the undesirable kinds of responses to those images, I'd freak out and we'd move to some isolated valley in Tibet.
2007-02-20 01:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by lochumbuk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go out and buy a copy. A person's past does not bother me at all, and if he posed nude, then he must be hot stuff. I would feel proud.
2007-02-20 01:17:20 · answer #7 · answered by Optimistic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong so long as its tastefully done and done in the name of art. However, speak with him/her and ask if there's any reason/s why her/she did what he/she did. If its his/her hobby I don't see why you should get too upset. Count yourself lucky that your other half as a nice body to show. Others could envy you.
2007-02-20 01:19:18 · answer #8 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would check my computer for spyware. Hopw do you know he has. Have you not got photos of him that someone has used maybe. Ever thought you could sue the magazines!
2007-02-20 01:20:29 · answer #9 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask for 1/2 of the proceeds. If it offended me, I'd move on.
2007-02-20 01:16:22 · answer #10 · answered by Chloe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would demand to know why he did it behind my back. It's something that we should've talked to each other about first.
Then, I'd probably pout for a long time.
2007-02-20 01:24:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋