ive been in one for a little over a year now, and things are starting to fall apart i can feel it, and we almost broke up the other day, i hardly ever get to see him, he says he really loves me and wants to be w. me in the future, idk what to do, i really love this guy. helpp!
2007-02-20 00:50:53 · 14 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
they can work, but only if both people are mature and committed to the relationship. Maybe you need a visit ASAP
2007-02-20 00:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry. Wow, a year! You lasted longer than most do. If it falls apart that doesn't mean that it's truly love or not. It actually may mean more love because then they are trying to stop you from missing them so much and move on and be happy. If you guys break it off then it will take a long time to get over it or you may never get over it but I guarantee that it will calm down a bit and you will feel less lonely as time goes by but at times of hopelessness remind yourself that you two could end up being together again someday and will look back and smile at how far you guys made it. â¥
2007-02-20 12:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by FML 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey i have same problem, dont worry. I have trust issue with my girl friend which is similar to what you are thinking. You are thinking relationship is breaking up but the truth is not. Guys are the creature who tries to cheat but i love my gf and i cant find any1 better than her, you are going out over a year now? then im sure he is feeling same way as i do. If you are going on with long relationship only thing you can do is to trust and hope. If he makes time to talk with you over the internet or phone that is the symbol he loves you because he is taking time for you. Best option is to make future plan when to meet up and stuff, that will help both of you a lot. GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-20 08:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by MOOMIN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't know how they can last, unless you both make an effort to see each other every week. How far away is "the future" he's talking about? How old are you guys? If you are old enough to travel to see each other and you're not doing it, then all you have is a phone relationship or a guy who has a fear of commitment. If you're NOT old enough to go off on your own to see each other, then sticking it out might be OK. But, it won't last forever. Are you missing out on dating other guys or do you use your "long distance" guy as an excuse for not dating? Think about it.
2007-02-20 09:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waste of time. What kind of relationship is it if you cant even see each other. Youre not going to be able to experience things together or grow together. All it is unfortunately is a phone relationship. Let it go, if you are meant to be in the future, you will. But neither one of you will ever be happy like that. And it will only get worse, to the point where you feel like you dont even know each other.
2007-02-20 08:54:56 · answer #5 · answered by just wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody will cheat (more than likely the man) and the relationship will end. The person cheating won't feel remorse because they are with someone while the "devoted" one is alone and hurt. I say if you are not married and you have to be separated agree to see other people and if the relationship is a strong one when you come back to each other resume the partnership and get on with it.
2007-02-20 09:05:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is truly love, it will hold under any kind of test. Long distance is a real test of the strength of your relationship. If he does suggest break up chances are there is one on the hook, otherwise why would he leave you to be alone? I am sorry to say this, but it does happen. Put it to him and see.
2007-02-20 08:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships suck, they hardley ever work. If you are young, date around, if you two really love each other if the future you will find a way to make it work.
2007-02-20 08:54:02 · answer #8 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a relationship by long distance .... isn't so good... because you are far each other. But it different when exist love both...but it depends if u know him, did u know his by chat??? or he needed to go for another place??? I have a friend that she passionated by a man that she just talked with him by msn and he was falling love too... he lives in USA and she lives here in Brazil, he said her that would like to get married her and first he'll go to Brazil to know her parents and asked her to married... in this moment, he is in USA and she in Brazil, he'll go in octuber to get married her... they are distant each other... but this don't confuse the relationship them... I hope this can help u!!! you love him... don't give up so easy.... try to reach your happiness
2007-02-20 09:05:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they can work up to a point ---- there must be a commitment at some time to get and stay closer together and yes if that does not happen then the relationship will break down over time ---- whatever your wishes ---- im in one now and we will be together very soon ---- best wishes to you both
2007-02-20 08:56:43 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋