I am somewhat shy type...
I have started to be more jovial ..........
Iam trying to be so...............
Please tell me so that is shall be more close...........
2007-02-20 00:48:59 · 12 answers · asked by Ms 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk more- but dont be a bitchh and backstab. its no good
2007-02-20 00:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to open up more w/ them. The more time you spend w/ them, the more comfortable you will be. Listen to the things they say they like to do and offer to do some of those things w/ them. Invite them over, meet them at the mall, go have a bite to eat w/ your friends. If they are all planning to meet up somewhere ask if you can go too. If they say yes, they are welcoming you and that will be your opportunity. If they say no, then find out why, they'll tell you. If it's reasonable, then try another time. If they just make up something, then understand they don't want to be as close to you as you do to them, back up and find new friends. Good Luck.
2007-02-20 09:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by lamonross80 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well to be closer and been shy at first will be kinda hard but you'll get over it soon. But go out more often with the, talk with them more enjoy the conversation and time together. Also a friend will be a f riend always without no complaints or back stabbing. But you also need to watch out for some friends who are friends only whenthey need something. But you'll do goo just enjoy the days with them as much as you can.
2007-02-20 08:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to open up by making suggestions of things that would be fun to do. It's got to be things you know interests them. Instead of trying to fit into a crowd pick out the one you really hit it off with, and start there. Every thing else will come.
2007-02-20 08:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by russell c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have this problem too which I'm working on.
I think it is best to be yourself.
Perhaps sometimes talk about topics of their interests. Show them you are interested in what they are interested but don't force yourself to do something that you don't want to.
Show them you are concern and ask how they are doing if you sense something's not right.
Be nice and don't talk behind their backs or backstab.
2007-02-20 08:55:22 · answer #5 · answered by whitelighter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing can beat ones honesty. An honest person is a genuine friend. Sincerity and humility attract people to your heart. Pretense is the enemy of many!
2007-02-20 08:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by Binnus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to relax and be more extrovert. Be true to others and to yourself. Don't get desperate because your friends can detect if you do.
And if your confidence is low sometimes, you can do things like learning new skills and helping others. It's fun and can give a boost in your self-esteem. (For me, I like maths. And I just learn ice-skating last week and it felt great!!)
2007-02-20 08:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by Blazze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself available, don't force it and if it happens.. it will.. It takes time. Friends can come and go throughout your life. Some stay.. other's don't. We grow, friends grow,but not always in the same directions.. Have fun with your life.
2007-02-20 08:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and natutally be happy and invite your friends to join you in activities. and try and build a realtionship . if you dont you will always be shy and you will never know. they won't bite you. get involed if you don't you miss out. this could affacet your life completely so take that first step and be brave.
2007-02-20 08:57:46 · answer #9 · answered by Elvis 109 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take the initiative by calling, staying near to them because your presence is very much important in friendship. okay!
Show of who you are and surely they will appreciate you.
2007-02-20 08:54:16 · answer #10 · answered by kay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to open yourself up, reveal some very personal traits about yourself. People will be very responsive.
2007-02-20 08:52:44 · answer #11 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋