both from first response, and they both came up positive for pregnancy. Im happy, but the problem is that im 17 and just finishing high school. I'm telling my parents today and I have no idea how they're going to react. Please dont send me hate comments, i know what i did was wrong, i just need advice on personal experiences. I have been accepted into college, and i don't know what im going to do about THAT either.
2007-02-20 00:46:54 · 9 answers · asked by sweetsarah 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Wow Sara, talk with your parents, maybe they will be very very surprised and maybe yell at you but after all they are your parents they sure will help you. Don't be afraid, be honest and speak with your heart. As for college, you could still do it but you have to know that it going to be harder and that your life and your priorities are going to be completely different. But if you have your family and your friends beside you you could do it. Be happy! because even though is going to be hard it is a gift from life.
2007-02-20 00:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by Naias ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you think what you did was wrong, then why are you so happy about the baby. You know that it is not all that uncommon for people to have babies at 17. I had my first at 20, and get told that I am too young to be a mom. You have to be able to handle all the the criticism that people throw at you. How old were you parents when they had you? If they were younger, they might be a little more accepting. Of course nobody wants to hear that their daughter is pregnant at a young age, but society has changed dramatically. Things are different now. If you need help with taking care of the baby, there are many different organizations that will help out. I'm not saying you have to go on state welfare either. There are a bunch of different resources for young parents out there. Have you told the soon to be father? How far along do you think you are? You should go to the doctor to make sure everything is okay. I'm not trying to scare you, but I lost my first pregnancy, and that is a hard thing to have to go through. If you need somebody to talk to, you can drop me an email. Good luck!!
2007-02-20 01:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, with a little understanding from Mom and Dad, and a lot of help and support, you can not only finish high school, but also get a degree in whatever you set your mind to. No, it won't be easy, but it'll give you a sense of achievement. You can take night classes for most stuff. It'll take longer to get your degree, but better late than never, right? At least this happened at the END of the school year!
I'm 29 myself, have a 6 year old daughter & 38 1/2 weeks with my son. Same father (my husband), thank God I found a good guy! Even without kids, I took 4 years to get my 2 year degree! I kept changing majors! :)
2007-02-20 01:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had my 1st child just before i turned 18 and am happily married ( to her daddy ) and expecting baby # 5. OK my life has gone on hold a bit but when they grow up i will start again with college or courses etc.
if you really want your baby things can work out, be honest with your family and maybe they can help you stay at college and have the baby.
it does work for some ppl the 1st thing you do is realize OK it was a mistake but it may be the best mistake you have ever made, a baby is a blessing plz dont think you have done anything wrong just make the right decision x x x x
2007-02-20 00:59:24 · answer #4 · answered by mum_2_many 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did was not wrong! I was 17 when I had my first child. Yes I was scared and my family was scared for me, but now my child is 6 years old and is a godsend. She helps me out with everything and now she has a little sis and is soo happy. You can still go to college dont think you cant. They have many programs to help out single moms. Dont ever be sorry about your baby. Things happen and you are not the first and nor are you the last. Keep your head up and be proud. Good Luck
2007-02-20 00:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm nineteen and in college, and it's very possible that i am pregnant.
the thought of telling parents is scary, and since you're still in highschool that's scary too.
DO NOT QUIT SCHOOL. and DO NOT TURN DOWN YOUR OFFER FOR COLLEGE.
it might be a good plan to live at home with your parents for your first 2 years of college, and go to a community college to get your basics. it's really al ot cheaper. you could work durring the day, while your kid is at daycare, and go to classes in the evenings and on weekends when hopefully mom and dad or your boyfriend or his parents or a sitter can watch the baby.
that's my plan anyway if it turns out i'm pg as well. congratulations. i am glad to hear you're happy. babies are a gift, no matter what stage in life we are blessed with them. hope my plan helped you out!
2007-02-20 02:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you are going to do is raise a baby. sometimes your life has to be put on hold for awhile, are you ready to give anything up, partying , school, friends, relationships? not that you have to no matter what but with a child things can be alot more difficult. half my friends barley even call me anymore, i am too busy with my 17 month old anyway, but i am just saying you are young and so are your friends, they are going to want to stay young while you grow up, as for your parents, i am hoping they are understanding and will be there for you, its not easy.
good luck and congrats.
2007-02-20 00:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was 17 when i got pregnant my parents weren't pleased with me but they soon came round and as for your college it will still be there when baby is here my daughter is pregnant now shes 17 weeks she is still going to college she is in her 2nd year and is going back to finish her 3rd year after baby is born me and her dad are helping her out i hope your parents do the same for you x
2007-02-20 00:55:48 · answer #8 · answered by andrea.barrett36 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please be honest and up front with your parents and then try to plan what your next steps are. The baby's father should also know.
You can give the baby up for adoption if you feel that you can not take care it and are too young.
2007-02-20 00:50:03 · answer #9 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋