I now have been going out with my woman for about 5 months she is 25 and I am 29. We do love each other very much but when it come to our sex life it not like my previous partners as she seems not quite satisfied. A couple of weeks ago she mentioned about her previous partner was much bigger and said in her words she loves the feeling of being totally filled. From a womans experience with previous endowned partners does it still leave her such an expression on her mind.
2007-02-20 00:41:49 · 23 answers · asked by steve j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My self I am above average.......well thats what I thought at 7.5".
2007-02-20 00:49:53 · update #1
That was a horrible thing to say to you. Even if she thought it, she should never have said it out loud to you. I have been married twice and yes there are differences in the two men, as I am sure there are differences in the two women he has been married to. But under no circumstances would either one of us say such an ugly thing to each other. Size does not matter if you really love someone. You will not say or do anything to hurt them in any way, and what she said is very hurtful.
2007-02-20 00:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by jbpammy004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would take this as a good thing.Now all u have to do is something that will make her think about u n only u.U could create an environment (your bedroom) into a theme that she would love.Something with candles everywhere and rose peddles all over the bed n a bottle of champagne.Have some massage oil around and just show your love to the fullest n just make a night for her and to plz only her.Make the world revolve around her for the night.Women love being the centre of the universe and it would b something for her to remember.U could add a little fun n bust out some whipping cream n lick it off her in the ticklish spots lol...Well hope this helps and u two have some fun.Good luck n ciao 4 now
2007-02-20 00:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by too4barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meh. She's being a jerk. Size is an added bonus, in my experience, but smaller men have still been able to satusfy me. Try spicing things up in bed with diifferent positions, or maybe you could get some sex toys or something that would make her feel more filled...? Maybe a zucchini would do the trick...?
Anyway, I repeat, she was a jerk for saying it. There's a lot more to sexual pleasure than the size ofthe guy's thingie, and it seems like many women forget that they are even more responsible for their own pleasure than their partner is. Enjoyment is mindset.
Edit: HOLY F-ING GOD, are you kidding...? 7.5 inches is quite above average..... average is, like, 6.5 or something.... she has no reason to complain!!!
7.5 too small, my tush!
2007-02-20 00:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you are full of it or she is i have had more partners then you could dream of and never has any woman said anything like that and other then the one nighters they all came back for more and more and I am not 7.5 so i would suggest that you don't know how to use what you got. Size matters a little but mostly youhave got to know how to use everything you have and use it well.
2007-02-20 01:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman that loves her man will not kept mentioning her previous partner on how endowned he is to you. She will tell you how to stimulate her in order for you to give her pleasure and if she is not willing to do so then your relationship will not work.
2007-02-20 01:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by Dorothy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Size is important, but unless you are so tiny that by the time you're in, done your business and out and she's still asking 'is it in yet?' then you have a problem. You need to figure out ways, moves, positions in bed that will satisfy her. Seek a little guidance from her (because I'm sure you're not a mind reader), watch/listen for her reaction to different things. Ask her what she wants. But in the end, if she only cares about size alone...you may as well give up.
2007-02-20 00:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She's very tactless indeed. Either talk to her and find out what pleasures her the most, find out her fantasies or, if she continues to throw this up in your face, I think it's time to move on.
Being a great lover is a two sided street. It's how a man and woman make love to each other, not the size of his penis.
Just my opinion. :-)
2007-02-20 01:02:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find other ways to fufill her. Its not all about the man. Women have needs and wants. Its not all about the size. Maybe she was refering to something else. Maybe you need to give her more attention in that area. If she truely loves you, then I wouldn't take it the wrong way. Make her enjoy the whole expierence. DOn't finish the act until you know she is fully satisfied. A few men I know once they are done, they are done and thats all they care about. Take to heart her needs and wants.
2007-02-20 01:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by beaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It left more than an impression in her mind. If you can't for fill her needs in other ways she's going to eventually find someone who will. I'd go to the Adult Book store and get some big toys. It doesn't do much for the ego, but it will help keep hold of your women.
2007-02-20 00:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by russell c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex was 10", and sex with him was nothing fabulous. In fact, it was almost too big. Hurt sometimes. If she complains about your 7.5", tell her this "Well, yeah, but even a 747 looks small beside the Grand Canyon." I mean, as long as she is disregarding your feelings......
2007-02-20 01:33:44 · answer #10 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋