A friend of mine, a girl whom I like ( I hv told her that b4 but she said she just wanna be friends) suddenly stop replying to my text message today. I think it may be cause by the matter yesterday - I replied her text message late by ONE HOUR yesterday. I have apologized though, but her answer is rather cold and short and since then her text is quite "cold". Is it possible that she is angry for me being late in texting her? There were times when she did not reply to my text.. If she is angry, what can I do?
We are 15
2007-02-20 00:36:02 · 12 answers · asked by Hero 2001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my sisters 15 and i know excally what your talking about. texting isnt a big deal but she gets all worked up if her guy friends dont text back right away. and if shes really mad that you didnt text right away, maybe its a sign she likes you?? and she'll get over it...eventually. dont appologize cause its not that big of a deal. maybe you should just talk in person more often..
2007-02-20 01:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by jessica_stay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being overly sensitive over this amazingly small issue. She might have been busy when she repiled your text message. She seems too mature to be upset over you replying her 1 hour late.
I've got this really really good friend, who most of the time take HOURS even DAYS to relpy to my text messages in this case 1 hour would actually seem pretty fast don't you think? - oh! Me and that friend? We're still really good friends even though she does that to me.
2007-02-20 09:02:20 · answer #2 · answered by Irish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but what it sounds like is that you have a crush on a girl who says she only wants to be friends. What it also sounds like is that you are annoying her. 1 hour after rcving a txt msg isn't reason enough to be mad, it's a sign for you to leave her alone. That's why she's cold and non-responsive. Just leave her alone and move on. Like you said, you're only 15, there will be more "friends" for you to make. Good Luck.
2007-02-20 08:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by lamonross80 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't think she is mad about that but then again, girls are very sensitive. Why don't you simply ask her "Hey, are you mad at me about something? I care about you and I sense some tension. What's up?" Girls also have a tendency to take time to "cool." I know I don't get over things quickly. Buy her a little teddy bear and tell her it made you think of her.
2007-02-20 08:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by Teddy Bear 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is kinda silly... i realize that u are young, but if she is going to be that immature over a text, then i suggest u find another fish to follow... i know its hard to let go, but if she is going to be like that over a text message, imagine what will happen when u are late to meet her at her class because a teacher asked to speak with you or whatever?!
2007-02-20 08:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by shiningstar1313 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She'll get over it - she's a young teenage girl , they tend to have mood swings. Don't stress over it. If you feel the need, you can tell her what the circumstances were for your not replying promptly. But, I feel you don't need to worry just appologize and she'll get over it. no need to be concerened in my eyes.
2007-02-20 08:39:42 · answer #6 · answered by absolut_nixter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she'll get over it.its just mood swing.there are poeple like that.dont worry,everything will be fine but if it continues for a long time,ask her what went wrong and try and move on from there.best of luck.
2007-02-20 09:04:39 · answer #7 · answered by onel2k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay she needs to remember that she only wants to be friends with you and not have anything serious. so why is she making sucha big deal. i would tell her "hey we are just friends don't expect anything serious. if i answer an hour late then i answer an hour late."
2007-02-20 08:40:36 · answer #8 · answered by destiney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,if my bf din reply me in 1 hour without telling me the reason i will get angry n mad.
2007-02-20 08:41:00 · answer #9 · answered by W.C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUNG LOVERS!!!!!
so egoistic!!!
just give her a damn and wait 2 days and she wil *** runnin bak 2 u!!
Dont run fter her!!
DERE is no logic in wat u r takin!!!
If the gal is gettin angry cause u didnt reply instantly give her a cold behaviour frm ur side too BUT IN LIMIT mind u!!
2007-02-20 08:43:38 · answer #10 · answered by AMAZING COUNCILLOR 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋