My boyfriend is very abusive and he gets mad over everything. I tried to leave him but I couldnt because he told me that he was sorry for putting his hands on me and I told him I was going to give him another chance. Im not 14 years old and we moved again. He told me he wanted to start a new life with me. He asked me to have another baby with him because he like seeing me pregnant. Do you thinl i did the right thing??
2007-02-20 00:25:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
And you'll be doing it over and over again. Get out or admit you enjoy the suffering he puts you through. Why do you want to put another child through it? And what happens when your not prg any more? You like it, don't you?
2007-02-20 00:32:47 · answer #1 · answered by Baw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion no you didn't . He is trying everything in his sick power to keep making you think you only have him . Once you have these babies you will think you need him more cause it gets hard . He is trapping you slowly . Picture this I don't know if you ever saw this before , but listen . Did you ever see a snake stalk his prey and sneak up on them like he isn't going to bother them , that he is just passing through ? Well guess what that prey trust the snake not to bite and eat it that it lost it's life . My point is you are sitting bait and he will bite again . He is trying to trap you and make you his sitting dummy until one you are completely ruined and he thinks no one else will love you . Two you die . Wake up today and leave . I know you love your child more then the air you breathe so do it for the child . Not only is he messing your life up it is destroying the child's life . You don't think that child knows whats going on but they do . I've been there and my daughter is 12 yrs . old and I left her dad when she was 3 and she still tells me stories she remembers . Still to this day she won't eat green beans cause she seen her daddy hit mommy with a can . PLEASE love yourself and kids . I will pray for you deeply . GOOD LUCK !!!! May you make the right decision today and leave .
2007-02-20 00:41:26 · answer #2 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave this boyfriend of yours if you still count him as one. he being abusive towards you would eventually leave a scar on you permanently. it doesn't mean that once a person stops being abusive, he won't do it again. slowly, you'll be giving him chance after chance and the cycle never ends. 'he likes seeing me pregnant', this is not ordinary behaviour. you are willing to have another baby just because he likes seeing you that way? then just think of how many babies you're going to have in the future. I think that you should leave your current boyfriend and find a better one.
2007-02-20 00:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by Soaring 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Let me tell you why-I was once where you are now. I was married to an abuser. He raped & sodomized me. Mental,emotional, & physical abuse,& verbal.I gave him a second chance,it happened again. I thought GOD would punish me if I left,but decided that if I didnt, he would eventually kill me. I found the strength & courage from GOD to walk away. You are not put on this earth to be abused by anyone! Lucky for me we didnt have any children together(blessing) & he found someone else to abuse. That was 25 years ago & I have NEVER regretted my decision to make my life worth living. Please get some help-if you need to talk, I'm here.I will pray for you to break these chains that bind you. Dont let him control you. Dont have any more children with him. Leave.............GOD will take care of you.
2007-02-20 00:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the abuse was a pattern, I don't think its the right thing. You should watch for the abuse continuing. Definitely do not get pregnant. You will have to take care of the kids alone if he leaves you or you decide to leave him.
Be careful and take care of yourself.
2007-02-20 00:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to ditch him. he's not attracted to replacing at this aspect and could no longer till you educate him that you're extreme. no more beneficial sex with him and a lot less talking. tell him that you do not should be dealt with like and fool and if he fairly needs to have a probability with you he will take the time yet that he receives no longer some other thing beneficial from you till you spot a authentic attempt at a substitute.
2016-12-04 10:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by kuebler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a man, and in italy we say a leopard cannot change his spots. I think that you should leave him, instead of wating your precious time
2007-02-20 00:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOR ONE THING YOU ARE TO YOUNG TO HAVE A BABY
IF HE HIT YOU BEFORE
THEN HE WILL HIT YOU AGAIN
GET A NEW BOYFRIEND
2007-02-20 00:43:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋