Why do single women almost always hang out in groups, whether it is at a mall or club/bar or social events? I can understand the reason for security (i.e. to protect themselves from jerks confronting them) & also the reason for just having a good time, like guys do too.
But women have to realize that hanging out in groups intimidate a lot of men from approaching them. Even the man who is confident or brave enough to approach a woman he finds attractive, is more likely to be a bad or abusive jerk. A good-natured, intelligent man with a high-paying job that women crave for is generally not confident in approaching a woman when she's in a group. They feel that it is indecent to single out a person from a group & then getting laughed at by the group, upon rejection - I'm speaking from personal experience & friends' opinions.
So my question is, why do single women hang out in groups almost all the time & believe they can easily hook-up with a good guy?
2007-02-20 00:25:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I've never been a group-hanger-outer. I'm more of a loner type. I've never had any problem being approached or having a date. I've known a lot of women who feel more comfortable in this situation because they lack the self-confidence of sitting alone in a bar or wherever. These women are afraid of being alone in a relationship too. They are the needy women that are suspicious if you want to spend the afternoon alone by yourself. Good luck.
2007-02-20 01:02:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just human nature. Women like to be surrounded by people. We tend to enjoy human connections a lot more than men. We feel safer in groups. I don't think I would feel comfortable going to a club or bar at night by myself. There is a sense of security and safeness when you go out with a bunch of people. For men, it's different they are able to take care of themselves at night. I don't think I would feel safe walking around at night alone. There is a lot of creeps out there. During the day, I do a lot of things alone. Go to the gym, shoppping, and eating. Well, try approaching the women during the day when they are alone then! If you are confident then a girl in a big group should not bother you. Get her alone if you don't want to deal with the group. Ask her to step outside for a moment or pull her aside!
2016-05-23 22:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not some women hang out together because they're having fun and picking up a guy isn't the goal.
2007-02-20 00:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes i hang out alone but i prefer to be with my girlfriends, we don't go out to find men if either one of us happen to see something we like off course we will go for it .For the most part we are having a good time enjoying each other 's company Did that ever occur to you ?
2007-02-20 00:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by canielany 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its the same principle with guys that hang out together and then talk about the good looking ladies that pass=by or just plain having a good time and fun!
2007-02-20 00:38:50 · answer #5 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is safety in numbers against predators.
2007-02-20 00:34:24 · answer #6 · answered by starflower 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
cuz they dont like being a lone at least i know i dont
2007-02-20 00:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋