Even though the person is so far away. When the person was here, we were intimate. Although, it didn't end up in bed. I kept my distance, because I didn't want to get hurt. Now, I hate to think if I should have just thrown myself in that person's arms. I just miss the person. Argh... Or, did I do the right thing?
2007-02-20 00:22:53 · 6 answers · asked by nausea guy 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The person e-mailed a few weeks back, and told me that where he's at is very cold. I didn't know if it was a hint (he ended it with an "oh well"). Or where he's at is just really cold. His e-mails have become very seldom, and very impersonal. Oh well. I really hate it. Darn it.
2007-02-20 01:07:58 · update #1
I think you did the right thing.
You are finding it hard at the moment and you did not sleep with this person. You might have found it a lot more hurtful if you had of slept together and they were gone.
If there is a chance of a future with you two the wait will do you both good.
I feel for you as i have been in the same situation before. I found talking to the person and telling them how much i liked them worked for me.
Good luck
2007-02-20 00:31:06 · answer #1 · answered by mummy to 6 ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you always shy away from things just because you're afraid that you'll get hurt, it's called playing it safe. Not entirely a bad thing. But if you play it safe all your life, you'll never get to experience a lot that life has to offer. You should have ended up in bed. Then you could always have the memory of that one wonderful evening.
2007-02-20 08:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by ron s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you were kind of in a no win - if you had thrown yourself in his arms and he still had to leave, you would have felt even worse. There are many times in life we say "if only" or "I wish" when we could have done things differently but it looks to me like you did the right thing for the right reasons. Who knows, if you are still in contact with him, things could change in the future.
2007-02-20 08:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by Brent W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sort of thing happened to me. Now, I think about what could've been, and I feel bad because I feel like I didn't take full advantage of the situation. I almost wish I would've just slept with the damn person.......ALMOST.
2007-02-20 08:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by LadySingsTheBlues 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not yet the real romantic type, but I would have thrown myself in his arms....if he had a hairy chest, though.
2007-02-20 08:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Regret is a terrible thing. If you learn from this pain then it will not be for nothing.
2007-02-20 09:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋