What should I do?
i am madly in love with a grl. my age is 14, nd she is of the same age. what shud i do? here, in 9th grade, love is very unusual.... so i cant tell her now, i donno whether she loves me..
what shud i do??
my feelins arent ***ual, but only i like her sooooooooo much that i cant imagine myself without her
I have been friends with her for a long time(very long time), nd i like her.
2007-02-19 23:34:34 · 12 answers · asked by methegr8 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i am sooooooo confused......if i get 2 know her feelings, then atleast i can b sure of 1 thing and rest, concentrating on other things like studies.
this thought always haunts me, that i've 2 leave her in 2 years, after schooling. i cant get over it
my love is born out of frndship, nd it isnt a romantic love
thank u
2007-02-20 00:07:14 · update #1
You could tell her how you feel. Even if your afraid and you don't know what she's going to say, tell her. However, don't tell her you love her yet, just tell her that you really like her. Even if she doesn't feel the same way, it's better than not knowing. Although, I also must urge you to keep up with your studies too.
2007-02-19 23:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by Audrey Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young man love means being able to deal with a persons good and bad, being able to tolerate a persons faults and errors and still feel that same love for them. Love means never looking at another and wanting that person when you are away from your heart. I am saying if you really are in love you have time to make sure, I wouldn't tell her for sure until your older. Telling her now could come back to bite you. Sometimes we think we are in love at this age but it's hormones talking not our brain. Just take it one step at a time and be careful that you don't get to a point where we allow our goals to be affected. I believe your primary goal should be to get the best education you can so in the future you can give her all she wants. Love is giving, that is in love and deed. Not so you receive in return because being able to wake up next to that special someone every day and still love her and know that love is returned in as little as a simple kiss, a hug and a warm meal. Yes, my friend love is unconditional.
2007-02-20 00:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by Georgia Preacher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,"Love' is a very strong word and emotion.It isnt to be thrown around and taken lightly as so many do today.Ease your way up,start with "Like",dont just throw love out there,because it may scare her off.
You need to figure out within yourself,whether it is love "Romanticly" or whether it is love on a friendship level that is very strong.Then,you need to ask yourself are you willing to lose a friend.If you should tell her,you have to be prepared for the changes that may come from her end.It is always awkward when a friend tells you,that you love them and they dont feel the same.So you must prepare yourself for that.Although,it is always hard to prepare yourself for rejection.It isnt impossible and can be done.If it comes up that you feel for her strongly as a friend,then just let things slide.Dont mention nothing as it can and will ruin a friendship even then.Make sure you make the decision that is right for you.No one can tell you what to do including me.This is merely my opinion on this topic.Good luck hun,and have a good day.
2007-02-19 23:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are obsessed with her.
Tell her straight in the face.
Or you will never get over it. You will be asking the same ques over and over again.
Be tough. Come on.. you like her, rite? So you gotta xpress it.
You want an answer. Swallow all that pride and ask!!!!
I did that and now i'm with the guy i love so much!
2007-02-19 23:40:57 · answer #4 · answered by rinoao 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok... since yeah you are young i wouldn't go straight up to her nd say "i love u" but say something like "since we have been friends for a long time, i wanted 2 kno if your feelings for me have changed since then, i mean my feelings have changed and i dont kno why, but all i do kno is that i reallly like you nd i guess i wanted to kno if u felt the same?" i dont kno it works for some ppl.. it worked for me nd we have been 2gether for 2 years...
2007-02-20 00:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her in joking way that what will happen if u ask her out if she says yes , as k her out immeditately , if she says no , then u still have some work to do .
2007-02-19 23:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by jj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly..........
i am 14 too and have had my share of crushes and most amazingly have almost the same points u do and i joined this site a day after u did so maybe i sort of understand how u feel ...........lol..............o.k on a serious note-GET HELP..........
NJOY....................
2007-02-20 01:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her about her feelings about you when you think that it is the right moment
2007-02-20 00:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by marylovefaires 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her. If you don't then you'll never get over your feelings.
2007-02-19 23:54:09 · answer #9 · answered by sunkissedlove<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i too think you are obsessed with this girl..not just infatuated but obsessed
get help please let her know how you feel before something bad happens
2007-02-20 00:52:15 · answer #10 · answered by chris w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋