ive been pressuring my boyfriend for years to marry me,i meet a fortune teller who tells me that i am indeed goiing to marry him and all at once i no longer want to marry him what in the world could this mean?i dnt even want to see him anymore,hes not aware of all this,iv stopped seeing him,i find it wierd,.
2007-02-19 23:18:19 · 6 answers · asked by kyb 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Be careful what you wish for - you may just get it ...
2007-02-19 23:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by Bite Me 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First of all, fortune tellers cannot predict the future.
Do you really believe in fortune tellers?, c`mon!.
About your boyfriend, why all of sudden your love for him changed?...you better let him know soon that you are not interested in him. Is not fair for him and can bring worse consequences; like being in a miserable marriage. You don't play with somebody's heart. Leave him or try to rekindle the love.
I agree with the first guy here, becareful what you wish for.
2007-02-20 07:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sabine 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's called suggestive thinking. You are going by the readings of a fortune teller who has no idea what kind of individual your boyfriend is or what kind of character he has. Only you can make that decision on whether or not you should be married. Don't base it on mumbo-jumbo. Make it an affair of the heart.
2007-02-20 07:27:50 · answer #3 · answered by gone 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Poor guy he must not know what's happening. I would says it says more about your real attitude to commitment. If you don't want to be with him put him out of his misery as kindly as you can. Perhaps the relationship has run it's course. How do you feel about him seeing other women? That's the real question. Stop playing games with fortune tellers,why do you trusting a stranger with your happiness?
2007-02-20 07:26:14 · answer #4 · answered by Dancemomma 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
basically its the classic , the grass is greener on the other side, story. ever since you started to bug him about it, he has said no so it became somewhat unatainable and you wanted it, bad. after a while you may not even wanted him, more likely the power of finally getting him to crack. now the tables have turned, its like he finally said yes but hey wait... now you sort of feel like you have control over him dont you? its sort of like you had a challenge but you overcame it.. theres not much to do other than to move on
here is what i suggest doing... think abotu your relationship with him and think about if you really DO want to get married to this man or if it was about getting him to say yes for some other reason.. and talk to him...
2007-02-20 07:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by curls 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You have options. He don't. If there is any heart in you at all you will let this poor fish go as no man is mature enough for marriage and he will never understand what you are talking about either.
2007-02-20 07:40:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋