2007-02-19 23:01:47 · 23 answers · asked by alee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1. divorce
2007-02-19 23:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Dear,
Please try to analyze the situation you are in and try to find out the reason. It may have resulted from some trivial matter. Be as patient and understanding as a normal lady should. Actually you had a kid should soften the matter to some extent.
I know that all these suggestions had already came to your mind but again please give a second thought.
Ceratinly if nothing actually works there is no other option than divorce. But this last option should be put into action with much thinking.
2007-02-20 10:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by Babul D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1. identify what the problem issues are.
#2. Understand that having a kids has nothing to do with the unhappy married life -unless that's one of the problem issues identified
#3. There must be trust, communication, respect, and the maturity to accept ones life and responsibility.
If sec 3 has things missing, approach and try to repair the problem issue(s), if he won't then either accept him for his faults, or move on. But don't nag him and get him to hate you or end up you hating him, that's not part of a solution.
2007-02-20 07:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by yawhosucs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to put some pressure through friends and relatives and resolve the issue amoung yourself. Still if the condition does not improve you can shift the child to your parents home/boarding and take up some proper job. Be financially sound and tell him to be away from your body. Still if the situation does not improve say him good bye and start staying away from him.
This will give both the party to change their future relations and mean that either they have to conclude to continue or say ex to each other.
2007-02-20 08:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - DIVORCE must be avoided sincerely. This is last to last extreme step. Is there any guarantee that if you leave him or change the partner - all your problems will be solved.
Again a lady has to consider many practical factors interalia her own financial independence - family background. Again review the position with candid approach. Is there any chance that you are over-expecting. Anyhow please have patience and wait for some more time. In initial years of marriage, problems come. You please pray to God for granting practical wisdom to both of you.
Even in case you are finding it difficult, you are at liberty to take drastic steps after some time.
Meanwhile, you may take assistance from some common friend who is matured and trustworthy - whom he respects. - Have patience - and seek help from marriage counsellor (if need be).
In all probability, you are at west Delhi. Take care of child and be busy in some social work too. During these difficult times, which is a temporary phase, you require to keep yourself courageous and wellinspired.
I pray God for his blessings for you. Best of luck
2007-02-20 08:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by PK LAMBA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She would know best the irritants, causes and roots of her unhappiness. If she knows she should try to rectify them or first at least try to identify these. The ones she can not remedy, she can post to this fraternity for possible options or solutions. But kindly lets remember God creates a solution the moment HE creates a problem in the Universe or Nature !
2007-02-23 04:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you to discuss once the all matters with your husband. If things do not change and you are financially independent and capable, leave that man. Please see that in many cultures it is not that easy for a young divorcee to live independently that too when you have a kid. So decide carefully and give a last chance to the man. Try to look things from your husband's perspective and see that are you doing every thing OK from your end.
2007-02-20 09:00:25 · answer #7 · answered by Friendly medic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her husband doesnt respect her its a very poor excuse to stay for the children. It is doing them more harm then good to see her husband verbally abuse or be disrespectful to her. That sort of thing is what messes up childrens minds to begin with. Leave the marriage and get out on her own. There are ways out there to help single parents and he of course has to help with child support. Too many women stay in very unhappy situations for the sake of finances. Its very sad.
2007-02-20 08:02:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what is the matter with him why isnt he respectin u.
Know the reason and try to solve the problem.
He'll surely co-operate.
If he doesnt then dump that fellow in a nice T.V. box pack it nicely and courier it to me i'll take care of him and see what to do.
U start preparing for ur 2nd wedding.And dont forget to invite me on ur marriage day.Dont worry i'll not bring that fellow with me.
Ok ?
Good luck !
Waiting for ur courier.
2007-02-20 08:06:59 · answer #9 · answered by SE7EN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask ur hubby, what is the route cause, why he doesnt understand u. Try to resolve the route cause, if possbile. If he still cant understand, & u guys cant be happy even after rectifying one/many route causes, just seprate & wait for sumtime, if that works, ok, otherwise divorce.
2007-02-20 21:43:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman should have another sex partner, she should be diverting her time thinking of her husband only. Woman can have a problem called histeria if they are not happy in their sexual life. Indian ladies stay with one partner, even if they are unhappy. You will be happy all the time if your sex desire is fulfilled.
Likely don't hate your child, love him more than any thing, play with him, remove a word from your dictionary "NO" . give him what he likes .
2007-02-20 11:46:22 · answer #11 · answered by Dabs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋