i filed police report against my ex husband's wife. she spoke about stalking me on her blog. she infiltrated a yahoo group and reads my posts and then bashes me on her blog.this wk i have to drop off 3 letters my landlord has where the person complains about my children and pets and claims lies about the destruction of the property. long story short, landlord saw it was a false report, and had no problems with my pets. but we never looked into who sent these three letters. the handwriting is so similiar to my ex's wife (compared to the handwrtg. on evelopes of valentine cards etc.) i have to take these to the police so they can look at them. if they are from her, this is a serious problem for her. and i have knots in my stomach. i feel bad.but i dont want to hurt her and my ex. i'll have options after they prove they're from her. she compromised me n my children's welfare with these letters. it shows intent.should i leave it in her file, or should i have her punish by law?
2007-02-19 22:40:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i tried talking to ex,he was rude and said she has a right to resent me for what kind of wife i was.we had a bad marraige,but i've moved on,am a good person,learned from past. who is she to judge me..and frankly i dont think this incident(s) is from a resentment for the sake of my ex. i think it's an obsession with me and some psychological problems. for 4yrs they would mock my disorder and use of zoloft. recently we learned she too has a disorder and is on a stronger med. because i'be "been" there, i want to forgive and just not make a big deal. but if she can do this behind my ex's back, what else is she capable of doing?
2007-02-19 22:44:12 · update #1
Forgive her & be kind to her. Relax. It confuses them!
2007-02-19 23:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It never seize to amaze me how some people are so consumed with ruining other people's lives that they stop living.I wouldn't want to be the one to tell you to take revenge,pray on it and follow your heart.good luck!
2007-02-20 07:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by walker4907 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
punish her she is messing with your kids,I wouldn't be surprised if your ex wasn't in on it.Unless you do something about it,it will keepup they may be doing this to get custody of your kids follow it through till the end so you don't get blind sided
2007-02-20 07:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by marfanman00000 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
law her, its called slander defamation of character. its not going to get better unless you dosomething about it. being a christian doesnt mean you have to be anyones floor mat. law her and show her you will not put up with it.
2007-02-20 06:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by duc602 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋