Okay, I could be married by now, but my Mr Right has not come along and I find it very hard to get turned on by anyone. I hate being touched, although sometimes it is like heaven and don't even like being hugged or kissed. I only like to hug myself and look after myself. I don't wnat kids although crave the whole babe in arms thing. I am worried if I am fit to even become a mother or a wife. I want a man, well someone I can dress up for and go to the movies with anyway. I have tried friends like this, male friends but they always want more of a relationship and get attached and frustrated when I say let's just be friends. I am sick of the whole online romance thing. I crave a relationship but feel they are hard work and there is always issues. I am happier just being alone, doing what I want to do. I know sexual relationships come with dramas and dilemmas and issues, and find that way too much hard work.
I just want fun, I want it all to be fun. I want nothing serious.
2007-02-19 22:35:20 · 11 answers · asked by Mel 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
asexual: Lacking interest in or desire for sex.
2007-02-20 05:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you aren't ready for a real romance as yet. It also sounds like you may be afraid to get involved. If you're 29, you probably know that nothing is all fun. There's a price to pay for a relationship and a price to pay for not having one. All it boils down to is which price are you willing to pay, effort and possible heartbreak or loneliness and emptiness?
2007-02-20 06:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by Holly R 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, be glad, I got really hurt by someone I waited 4 years to meet, after they lied to me the whole time.
I want someone good too, I think its very commendable what you have done.
I applaud you for that, not many that are left like that. Sure you can get a good man one day, if you never give up.
2007-02-20 06:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are happy who cares what others think. Live your own life. You sound like a very cold, unfeeling person who should just live your life all alone. But thats ok, if thats you and you don't hurt anyone. Stop worrying about being "normal". Normal is relative.
2007-02-20 06:42:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Eventually you'll miss serious. I'm getting too old to start a family, but sometimes wish I'd had the opportunity.
2007-02-20 06:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by ERIC G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont want to get married or have kids, thats your disision, but you will settle down eventully, in your own time, dont let anybody rush you, or there not worth it if they do,
2007-02-20 06:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by cooclocktigers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE JUST NOT READY YET FOR A RELATIONSHIP BUT YOU WILL KNOW WHEN MISTER RIGHT COMES ALONG,
2007-02-20 06:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by Angeleyescrying 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy doing what you are doing, keep it up. You don't have to go against your own nature to please others, or to fit someone's expectations.
2007-02-20 07:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh. My. God. You are me 5 years from now.
2007-02-20 06:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by sarah s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try being with a girl.
2007-02-21 00:39:17 · answer #10 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋