how can i tell my parents if don't want to finish my BS degree and go back to china marry with my bf?

Answer 1

You should concentrate on the education first. That is very important, think about bf later, you have the rest of your life after graduation, and you'll have a better life with an education.

Answer 2

I think you should tell them that your time at college has changed your outlook on life and that you really want to explore a few options before returning to your family. This may not be the entire story, but it is in essence what is going on with you.

That first signal that something has changed will give them time to think about it and perhaps be prepared for the next part you decide to tell them.

I know it's difficult in many cultures to go against your parents' wishes, so this must be very hard for you. But if going home is going to make you miserable, you should have a chance to make your life better.

Think of all the people who went their own way and great things came from it. Musicians, writers, aviators, inventors, missionaries, explorers, CEOs, business owners and many more have had to step away from their home culture to pursue their dreams. Try to find an example that fits your situation.

Eventually, you will have to tell them that you're not coming back at all -- if that's what you decide to do -- but for now buy some time to let them know that your plans may be changing.

Best of luck!

Answer 3

you say, parents i don't want to finsih my bs degree and i want to go back to china marry with my boyfriend.

Answer 4

just set them down and tell them thats not what you want don't marry if some one esle wants you too thats what i did and i divorced him i wasn't happy and i raised my 2 kids

Answer 5

i dont know