I have been with my bf for 2 yrs and 4 month we broke up and it has been 6months , during the time we were not together we didnt talk for 3 months but we started getting close again and he even dumpt his gf to be with me ( he was with her for a month and shes to young for him ) we started talking and he said he was leaving this country to live abrod for good and isnt coming back and i told him that i dont want to loose him so we started talking and we are suppost to be going to live there together within 6 months . The thing is i do want to go coz i have relations living where we are going he even found a place near my grans home to live . Im just afraid were rushing things to fast again im 17 and he is 19 we love each other more than ever . We have always said we are going to go live abrod when we get older . But it just seems to fast i cant tell him coz he has found a good job there and when i did he said i cant throw my dream away . I dont know what to do please HELP !!
2007-02-19 20:59:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That's a big change to deal with so no wonder your nervous about it. If you want to be with him, then I'd say give it a shot. Try it out for a while and if it just doesn't work out, then you've always got your grans home to go to until you can get back on your feet again. That's the good thing about having your relatives close by, you've always got a safe place to fall back on when things don't turn out the way you thought they would! Good luck.
2007-02-19 21:07:49 · answer #1 · answered by impossiblemama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't really grown up yet. Your mind is subject to change 40 more times by the time you reach 20 years of age. Sometimes love isn't enough. Use your common sense too. Are you gonna go to college? Now in these days it take a trade or a degree to make life comfortable. He could be ready to get on with his life, but you have doubts and you are afraid, so you need to step back think about the pros and cons and then make a move.
2007-02-20 05:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you are way to young........for all of this you need to take time out and party hang with friends go to college......I became a mom at 18 I love my 14yr old like noone else.....how ever trying grown up things b4 you r ready I PROMISE u will regrete not living in the moment while you r still young : )
2007-02-20 05:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by supernova000612 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stephine-
Listen to your inner self, you said twice things are moving too fast, so my answer is you are right! Even at 17 you can fell what's best for you. If you were thinking that you were responsiable enough to move away with him, you are women enough to TELL HIM things are going too fast. I disagree that you are "throwing your dreams away". If you really want to move, ask grans if you can stay, try for 6 months, and see where things lead you.
Good Luck, and PLEASE LISTEN to yourself, you know what's best.
2007-02-20 05:15:37 · answer #4 · answered by sweathogwife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him, then you'll work it out.
i mean you might THINK you are taking things too fast because you might have started to look at life in different perspectives. i mean, when we were younger, we wanted to grow up, and now that we are older, it is coming so fast that we aren't expecting it.
but if you aren't ready to move out with him then just take your time. there is a time when we all have to and i have myself.
2007-02-20 05:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋