2007-02-19 20:50:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have strength looks fade in time.Happiness/ love is hard to find
2007-02-19 20:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl143_dk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have a choice here, what u choose will determine your destiny, there is always going to be a younger woman, and u can go on forever seeking one out, but u will never have a meaningful relationship with anyone, lust and love are not the same thing. if you are married what about the commitment u already made to your wife? think your in for heartbreak here, but it is really something u have to learn for yourself.
2007-02-20 07:23:32 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think in your mind... What if this happens to me (meaning what if your wife falls for a younger, more attractive man). How will YOU feel??
2007-02-20 05:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by Brandycandy98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your fear towards this situation is bizare in the sense that you dont appear committed to your wife. If you were, you would not even be thinking along these lines. Concentrate on your marriage and resolving the issues within it before inviting situations that probably wont even happen. If it does, walk away....
2007-02-20 04:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by kelstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your wife about her and that you are scared that you might fall for her . and let your wife going take care of the younger woman . and you can go talk to her husband and let him know what is going on with his wife OK
2007-02-20 05:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your wife about it, be honest with her and let her know that you are tempted and that you are coming to her because you love her and you don't want to cheat on her and then you two can work on it together. It's easier to cheat if it is a secret that she is trying to flirt with you because then no one knows about it, and actually telling your wife will probably bring you two closer together. Then you might want to try new things with your wife like go to a club and have her sit at a bar by herself and while your watching her, guys will e buying her drinks and then you could go up to her and tell them that she's taken, it will give you the excitement that guys still want her, but you have her. You could just start doing things to spice up your relationship with her, if she agrees of course. Good luck and I hope I helped
2007-02-20 04:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by caramel_angelkiss 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can deduce two things from your question:
1. Looks are more important to you than anything else.
2. Because you are so immature and shallow, if you SHOULD leave your wife for this other woman, your wife is well rid of you.
2007-02-20 04:58:43 · answer #7 · answered by silvercomet 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cheater's deserve every bad thing that happens to them.
2007-02-20 05:07:27 · answer #8 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember Looks fade but stupid is forever.
2007-02-20 04:56:09 · answer #9 · answered by Nort 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How lucky you are. If you are afraid, why don't you introduce her to me. I am a married bachelor.
2007-02-20 04:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋