i love my bf frm past two yrs. He came in my life by saying lies , for whole 2 yrs he continously stick on his lie neither for 1 sec i feel that my relationship is based on lies , bt nw after 2 yrs i knw truth , i love him vry vry much i knw he love me too , bt my problm is if he say lie for 2 yrs he can say in future too. Nw wht i do ? shall i forgive or break my relation wid him
2007-02-19 19:49:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
After reading your question my first reaction was " Leave him immediately, there is no place of a liar in love and relation".
However after reading your letter twice more now it looks like that you also love him and emotionally involved with him. If he does not have any other problem, if his LIE is not related to a previous crime - than you may go ahead with this relationship.
2007-02-19 19:58:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of lies? you weren't specific about it. however, if for two years, he has been lying to you, maybe his feelings for you is also a lie. why not move on and find someone else? and if ever you really love him, can you continue with this relationship wherein you don't even know the truth or when he is telling you the truth? what kind of existence will that be?
2007-02-19 19:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking a relationship is not easy in this stage. He lies you you
definitely know it now. But he loves you.If you can give a hint that
you know he lie to you whole this 2 years he will shame on his
behavior. you better tell him tell you the Truth about him. and try
to tell him much valuable the Truth for your relationship, for your life. let him correct his fault
2007-02-19 20:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by thipathni a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl u should just leave his lying *** cause ur only lying to yourself if u think ur in love with someone who has only told u lies u don't know who he really is so u couldn't be in love with his honest side... u need to put ur best outfit n heels on and hit the town cause there r plenty of honest men out there that would treat u with dignity and respect and NOT lies.
2007-02-19 19:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are willing to put up with the lies, than keep the relationship but chances are if u know he lied, sooner or later it will begin to eat at your relationship and destroy it.need to get this worked out about the lie, if u don't it will hurt your relationship in the future.
2007-02-19 23:19:14 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, i feel that the best person to answer this question is yourself. If you can continue to live in deception, then i dun see why u should leave him. On the other hand, if u cannot take his lies, then u should move on.
2007-02-19 19:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by chopard70 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none of his lies were about his love for you, find the "why " of the lies, put a little confidence in him and remember "true love is not by finding the perfect man , but by finding the imperfect, perfectly "
2007-02-19 20:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by breeze_over_stormy_ground 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only a relationship based on honesty can get you through the day dump him and move on because it will continue!
2007-02-19 20:04:35 · answer #8 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he tell you the truth or did you find out for yourself? If he did not come to you to tell you the truth, he is dishonest and cannot be trusted.
2007-02-19 21:54:23 · answer #9 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't...doesn't matter the lie because it obviously bothered you so much you are thinking of leaving him so I think you should. Liars don't change.
2007-02-19 20:01:05 · answer #10 · answered by GranolaGurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋