I have this friend i have known for more than 10 yrs. I getting hate her, becoz she loves showing off. She wasnt that smart but she always act as if she is. SHe love to talk big, always telling ppl that how superior she was how important shes in the company and the company cant survive without her. Shes only a high school graduated, and she said she's very knowledgeable and highly educated. SHes never travel at all, but she always tried to give ppl a wrong impression that shes a outgoing and experienced traveller. I did hint her by telling her shes snobbish, but she thought i was kidding. Now i am getting sick of her.
2007-02-19 19:34:02 · 8 answers · asked by The Ox 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She has got a infeiority complex that develops into a misguided complex called the Superiority complex.
Just talk to her and maybe explain to her that she needs to wake up and change herself. I think good friends manage it and if you are with her for 10 years then all you need to do is to help her change herself. Give her a chance but first talk to her about it.
That is if you truly love her as your best friend.
2007-02-19 19:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by MafiaGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also have a friend like that,she will even brag about were she buy her ice cream as if she is the only person who buys from that shop.I only let her come to my house when I'm in the mood to listen to her stories but i like her i 'm happy when I'm around her.i just laugh all the time cause i know she's lying.
2007-02-20 04:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by zoleka k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best to subtly back out of the relationship. Just be to busy unless your in the mood to put up with her. Maybe you can still remain friends that way, but not 'best' friends. If you feel this way about her, are you really her 'best' friend?
2007-02-20 03:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by DixeVil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why stay with someone who makes you gag? Just drift the friendship. With age comes maturity and from what I read it seems that you learnt life lessons and she is still stuck in dream land. Find friends that describe who you are and friends who have substance so that they have your back when you need them, not someone who just wishes.
2007-02-20 03:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends are overrated. Take some time and do your own thing for a while and see how you feel about it.
2007-02-20 03:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by GranolaGurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I experience that too! My Best Friend always hurts me physically. I hate her too. The best way to do it is tell her the truth! IF, TAKE NOT IF, she accepts it. You must tell her very nicely like: Hey, you know, we had been best friends like forever so, I want to be honest with you, of course, you should be honest too me to. There was this thing that I don't like about you its ____________________________________________ (Right after) please don't be mad. I just want to tell you the truth!" BBBYYYEEE!!!
2007-02-20 05:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by cute10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her if she keeps fibbing in front of you, you are gonna pull her covers in front of god and everybody! If she has to make up lies about who she is..............., maybe she better check herself and try to be somebody!
2007-02-20 03:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by kellyfromcali. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is not sick...........she is your best friend who took part in all your sorrows and worries..........................the age is not important....................continue your friendship ...................ok........
2007-02-20 03:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋