There is a guy at work that I like but I think thats because he reminds me of my husband. im afraid to talk too much to hime because I never want anyone to know that I think hes cute.
he probably thinks im stuck up but i wont risk hurting my husbands feelings because I love him.
2007-02-19 19:32:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is it wrong to appreciate flowers of neighbor's garden !
Is it wrong to appreciate some body elses' dress in a party !
Is it Wong to appreciate some others kids in school !
NO. In all cases appreciate\ion is very right.
So for boy friend or girlfriend also you can appreciate others.
Only limitation is you can never dream of owning them as yours!!
2007-02-19 19:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to turn of attraction, just because you are married doesn't mean you stop looking, and appreciating members of the opposite sex. My girlfriend has male friends that she talks to on a regular basis, just like I have female friends. We both talk about what we find attractive, and don't get upset when the other notices an attractive member of the opposite sex. We both know who we will be sleeping with every night, and we know we are very much in love. So the old saying is the best.....Look but don't touch.
2007-02-20 03:41:28 · answer #2 · answered by booman756 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how hard it is to resist temptation cos I've had crushes on other guys friends too during my marriage. But it really takes a cool head to stop oneself from crossing that line.
Just ask yourself how you'd like your husband to act when he's faced with the SAME temptation - i think you'll get the answer :) Good luck and be strong!
2007-02-20 05:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by lesliekok 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, when you marry you must talk only to ugly people because someone may think that you think he's cute.
Your question is "Is it ok to think a guy is cute if your married as long as you don't say anything?"
My wife told me a lot of guys were cute, and I don't remember even giving it a second thought. Have you given him reason to worry about you and Mr Cutie?
2007-02-20 04:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by Nort 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you like him because he reminds you of your husband? Or do you just like/ attracted to him? It's OK to like and even have some attraction to another person, you're married, but still human. It's not wrong to just like someone else, but to act in a way that would be unfaithful to your husband would be questionable to most people.
2007-02-20 03:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by The Owl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like the asnwers so far...it's nice to see that there are still people with morals. There is nothing wrong with talking or thinking he is cute. I do the same thing and I am married. As long as you do not touch, you're good. We are all humans.
2007-02-20 03:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, it's always good to be sociable and make more friends regardless of whether if you're attached or not.
But since u are married, as long as your intention of thinking of other man is clear, your conscious is clear, there is not problem in that.
2007-02-20 03:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by chopard70 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am married and think guys are cute - even have crushes but doesn't mean I would do anything. I think its that you miss the excitment of new relationships
2007-02-20 03:36:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband about it and then tell him that your thinking of him and you wont cheat .
Ask your husband on input and then work on a way to work around the problem with him!
He'll love you even more for being honest with him!
2007-02-20 03:58:39 · answer #9 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is ok, but to have a crush on someone else when you're married, I think that's cheating emotionally. But as long as you don't get too personal then I guess it's ok.
2007-02-20 03:44:03 · answer #10 · answered by Loukotsu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋