How do you forgive people and move on?

Answer 1

good question.
love and respect YOURSELF. realize that anger/hate/dislike/distrust etc. towards someone are negative emotions that way you down and give you wrinkles. not worth it.
you deserve better than to be bogged down with those emotions. let go.
distract yourself with something you like.
so if you loved yourself you'd just forgive and move on.
you dont have to forget. just let go.

Answer 2

To remember that ..... I, too, make mistakes like other people did to me. I always say to myself, who am I, don't want to give forgiveness to the others while I do make the same mistakes and faults as well? Nothing is perfect in this world. It's not easy to forgive. When we don't want to forgive or can not forgive someone who pisses you off in a regular basis, you basically -sort of like- retain the same traits like them.
For every action there is a reaction. Basically you'd pull in what you've pulled out. You can't be a victim. Be careful when you can't forgive someone that pissed you off, because you unconsciously might have the same idiosyncrasies like them and repeat the same mistake like they did to you. I think we have to learn to forgive others, not only forgive them.... but to wish them well.

Answer 3

Remember George from Sienfield - his big head ruined James Spader's character's jumper (sweater for the rest of the world) because of Georges big head - don't forgive and move on

Answer 4

I paid my final $75/hr to get this that I thought was most theeee ridiculous, retarded thing to do:

WRITE EACH person who hurt you to the core a "How are you today?" letter next beginning with how I was and I was to list all my pity-me stuff and how I felt/believe they contributed to each of those things and next I was to finish with what GOOD came out of those things if anything, and last, I was to write, "...but! In hindsight, what you did to me was theeee BEST thing that happened to me and I not only thank you, it will be sometime before I forget what I feel you've done to me, but you know what? I freaking forgive you, I hope you will never have to experience what I did, goodbye and God help you."

I was told to put those in envelopes with their names on them and hide them away in a very safe place and I was promised that in 2 months, I was to take em and read them to myself alone and if I felt better, I was to shred them. If not I was to hide them again and reread them. I'm proud to say, I shred them all the first time around and I dont even think of those people anymore, I feel more at peace and coincidentally, every single one of those people have experienced one or two misfortunes since I wrote those letters.

I hope my answer will help someone if not you out there. :x

Answer 5

Forgive them for the fact that they know no better and be proud that you are a better person then them.

Remember that life is too short to be mad as when you are mad the only person it effects is YOU!

Go out and find better pastures..

All the best to you

Answer 6

By realizing that no one is perfect and everything has a positive and negative quality, one should be able to accept things with a more open heart and mind.

Answer 7

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Forgiveness

I dont think its necessary to forgive......just to move on. After 5 years or so you wont look at the situation the same anymore...you'll have bored yourself silly about it and minimised it in your memory.

Answer 8

............... there nothing more than ........ by just forgiving them and moving on ............. the more you will think on how to forgive or what different ways to forgive you are sucked into it more and more ................... just move on ........... that's it ............

Answer 9

you have to be bigger then the person or persons that have wronged you. nobody said it should be easy. its either a quality you have or one you should acquire if you want to live a more successful life

Answer 10

Just do it! Ask yourself, "what do I gain by continuing to be mad at them?"