If I wish for a particular job or may be for a particular person in my life and my wish doesnt get fulfilled should I stop wishing for that want?
2007-02-19 19:25:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well in my opinion, you shouldn't stop wishing. Just because it doesn't come true the first time doesn't necessary mean it wont come true at all. Sometimes your wishes may never come true thats just life. This isn't some fairytale world where all wishes come true, if it were then it would just be complete chaos. This is the real world, and you can't let one unfulfilled wish stop you.
2007-02-19 19:37:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Desired results are very rare and we all know if we dint select the nearest we miss the bus. We have but one life.Make the best use of it. Dreaming or wishing is very good indeed. But in practical life what you imagined you had perished. Forget about it. Start a fresh.The sky, the sea, the mount ins and the beautiful flowers are a great comfort when you try to understand them. Think about it. Good luck.
2007-02-20 05:05:25 · answer #2 · answered by Windcatman Joans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your mental (temperament etc.,) and physical stamina. If you think you are strong in both you can keep trying by various means to achieve your desired result. If not, it is better to deviate from such situation or wish and take up a fresh and an achievable wish for a peaceful living.
2007-02-20 08:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by Marks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but it do depend on how long you have been wishing for the certain job or someone, after so long yes i would start to wish for something else.
2007-02-20 03:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by I am women 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO,if u don't get what u wish for it doesn't mean that u should wishing try wishing some thing different it is not always that u don't get your wish.
2007-02-20 03:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by HINA K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THINK TWICE BEFORE YOU WISH FOR SOMETHING, TAKING IN TO CONSIDERATIONS OF YOUR POSITION, ELIGIBILTY ETC. ONCE DECIDED TO GO FOR IT NO LOOKING BACK. AT THE SAME TIME YOU MUST HAVE OPTIONS AND ALTERNATE PLANS IF SOMETHING GOES WRONG IN ACHIEVING THE WISH AIMED FOR.
YOU MUST BE A BALANCED PERSON WITH OUT DEEP ATTACHMENT TO ANYTHING. IF YOUR WISHES ARE FULFILLED IT IS GOOD. IF IT IS NOT, TAKE IT EASY.DON’T GET FRUSTRATED. THINK AGAIN,WHETHER IT IS WORTH PURSUING FURTHER. PURSUE IT IF YOUR CONSCIOUSNESS CLEARS THE IDEA..
BUT, THE WISH MUST BE PROPORTIONAL TO YOUR BACKGROUND.
FOR.E.G. IN THE FILM WORLD ACTORESS ISHWARYA ROY IS BECOMING THE DAUGHTER-IN-LAW OF OUR MEGA STAR (STAR OF THE CENTURY), BUT I CA NOT WISH TO GET ISHWARYA ROY AS MY DAUGHTER-IN-LAW.IT IS BEYOND ,FAR BEYOND MY LEVELS.
AMONG OUR LEVELS ,YOU LIKE A BOY ,PROPOSE IT HONESTLY TO HIM, IF YOU FEEL ,YOU BOTH WILL MAKE A GOOD PAIR. IF HE ACCEPTS IT ,IT IS GOOD . OTHERWISE ,FORGET IT ,AND TAKE IT EASY.
I WILL ADD ONE MORE EXAMPLE.
MY RELATIVE BOY GRADUATED IN MEDICINE AND HE WANTED TO DO PG IN MEDICINE. HE WAS NOT GETTING A SEAT IN TAMILNADU,ESPECIALLY IN CHENNAI. PRIVATE COLLEGES WERE DEMANDING 10 TO 15 LAKHS FOR A SEAT. THE BOY DECIDED NOT TO TAKE MONEY FROM HIS FATHER. HE LAST A YEAR. NEXT YEAR ,HE RESIGNED HIS JOB OF RS.8000/= IN APOLLO HOSPITALS,STARTED PREPARING FOR THE ENTRANCE EXAMINATIONS CONDUCTED BY AIIMS, N.DELHI. HE STOOD FIRST ON ALL INDIA BASIS AND HE SECURED THE PG SEAT OF HIS CHOICE.
ONE THING . DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT. WORK FOR IT VERY SERIOUSLY. ACCEPT THE RESULT WITH ALL HUMILITY. GOD IS WITH ALL OF US AND HE IS THE MOST IMPARTIAL SUPPORT TO EVERY ONE IN THIS PLANET OR THE UNIVERSE KNOWN AND UNKNOWN.
WISH YOU GOOD LUCK! TRY AGAIN. DON’T GIVE UP. BUT DON’T BE AGGRESSIVE. BE PROFESSIONAL
2007-02-22 13:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by NQS 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing's first, you never wish for something (wishing only determines if you're lucky), you work for it. If you work for something and you don't get it then it means that you either did not work hard enough for it or that something is simply not for you.
2007-02-20 05:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by dr.dre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom used to tell me: Blessed are those who do not expect for they shall not be disappointment. I hope, you do not expect so much when you wish for that thing lest you'll be disappointed and stop longing. I just hope, too, that what you are wishing for is something that you can do something about, something you can work for, something that is realistic and achievable. If it is, why stop longing? remember that dreams set our direction in achieving our goals in lfe.
2007-02-20 03:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by trooper J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember we get not what we want but what we need...
What you need to understand is... are your wishes your wants or needs..
if you are able to categorize it honetsly I guess you'd know what's best for you...
also don't stop wishing... thats the only thing that keeps us simple humans...
2007-02-20 04:09:01 · answer #9 · answered by Untouchable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely yes,because if your wish hasn't satisfied,it will always make you sad even during your time of happiness.
2007-02-20 08:31:09 · answer #10 · answered by suraj_erw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋