My boyfriend, although he can at times be very mature and totally on my level, just doesn't seem to understand certain "dating etiqute" He touches my girl friends breasts, invites his ex-girlfriend over to sleep in our spare room and calls me jealous or tells me i dont trust him when i question his actions.. am I wasting my love on him?
2007-02-19 19:01:31 · 23 answers · asked by Caro 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Are you serious ? Sheesh if he was my boyfriend he would have been kicked to the kerb long before now !
2007-02-19 19:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Age does not matter, it is really just a number. But even if at times he can seem mature the key word there is SEEM. He sounds to me to be very immature and is wasting your time. If he want to touch other girls and have his ex over then he needs to date one of them and stop wasting your time
2007-02-19 19:06:28 · answer #2 · answered by bm8211520 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What age are you. 8 and 12? 24 and 28? 60 and 64?
It sounds like you are at the younger end and he is not mature enough for a relationship.
2007-02-19 19:06:30 · answer #3 · answered by leedsmikey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is a waste of time indeed..how would he feel if you flirted with his male friend.Apart from this i think he is very immature..four years should not make any difference with any relationship..my partner is 20 years older than me.I think he has an awful lot of growing up to do..and you need to find someone a bit older and be treated a lot better...end it now,put all his things into a black bin liner!!
you will find happiness,he will not find happiness at his current rate of disrepect for women..he has an ex girlfriend for a reason..tell him to grow up.
2007-02-19 19:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i was going to say im 10yrs older than my partner, but when i read through yours properly it sounds to me like he isnt very mature. Sit down and chat with him tell him your feelings about these situations. He probably doesnt see the problem most men dont until they are faced with it. Good luck x
2007-02-19 19:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by spensmum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he my be fun and all the things you want him to be "WHEN HE WANTS!" get rid girl love your self do not be treated like that are you a door mat? have you got mug on your head? got out clubbing enjoy your self or better still do the same back first see how he likes it then dump him when he doesn't like you doing it.he will for ever be that way he wont change you have allowed him to treat and act this way with you so he is just doing what he can get away with its not you he will be like that with every girl he meets so "DO NOT ANALYSE YOURSELF" when he tries to turn it round on you saying that your jealous that you have the problem not him your not green are you? do not let him insult your intelligence. be with some one your own age or older
2007-02-19 22:01:58 · answer #6 · answered by emma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to remember that your older than him. It sounds like you forgot what you what in a man. He is doing all this stuff because your letting him.You should allow some of this stuff he is pulling. I would put my foot down with him and if he doesn't like it then leave him alone he is not worth the head ace. Keep your head up and follow you r first mine. Good Luck!!!
2007-02-19 19:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by Ms.Midwest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry yet what he did, i does no longer evaluate ok. He cheated on you together with her. isn't that reason adequate to stay away. it sort of looks such as you do no longer believe him, and by ability of the appearance of what your wrote, you're able to no longer. If he can not stay away then why could you reside. what's the region became into reversed would be be as gracious as you? I doubt it. you're asking us and you already look to renowned the respond. My mom as quickly as informed me that as quickly as you're relationship you're able to be choosy, considering the fact which you prefer to wind up with somebody who treats you the way you deserve, and is your suitable. once you're married you compromise, and enable little issues slide. Now i'm no longer saying that in case you have been married you're able to enable this bypass, i'm saying you're actually not married so why positioned up with the bull. sturdy success
2016-11-24 19:41:02 · answer #8 · answered by kemmer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear caro,
well ahemm...he can be mature at times like when>?/being mature at touching ur gf`s breast??or is mature when he invites his ex gf to ur house??ur 4 years older u are seriously wasting ur time ..be careful or u gonna have atough time
2007-02-19 19:18:07 · answer #9 · answered by vagabond x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just remember that girls mature earlier than boys.
He is still a chid at heart and simply doesn't understand.
If you love him, hang on in there.
Do tell him, calmy, if you find any of his behaviour unacceptable and how it makes you feel.
2007-02-19 19:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by David P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own question here, kick him to the flaming kerb girl and get some pride back in your life!! He my hubby touched another womens breasts i'd chop his hands off.
2007-02-19 19:06:12 · answer #11 · answered by madmoo0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋