I was with him for 2 yrs & didnt know until a year later. He persisted a realtionship with me & I fell for him &right at the height of our relationship he decided to meet his daughter & I supported him, I always did,I helped him alot. Anhow, when we were together I know he cared, but when he met his daughter, the mother of the child put out all she had to win him and it worked. Especially the whole mother and child thing and he wasn't there for 2 yrs. ANyhow, Ifound out the truth and he became very cold to me and defended her!! A few months later he found out she lied about her childhood, that she was raped, molested. WE talked for 20 minutes &then he stopped talking to me altogehter.I forgave him and wanted to be friends,I know he was very confused. But I sent him an email & he deleted it & then told me we should not talk anymore!?I forgave him &he walked all over it why? Is he ashamed?Unfortantly thru out all this,I found out more lies he told me, but I think he was emabarrased.
2007-02-19 18:52:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
We are 29 yrs old, educated, he is a teacher. THis girl is 23, no education, wants to be famous and now says she is bi-sexual!! Unbelievable
2007-02-19 18:58:12 · update #1
Shockingly they arent together anymore
2007-02-19 19:02:19 · update #2
Sometimes people don't want reminders of their lies after family court gets a hold of them for child support.
Don't beat yourself up, many people are insecure about their mortality and try to live on through their children.
When you start to feel abandoned Try seeing things in a bigger view.
Example: Our galaxy is likely to be spinning around a black hole
60 million times the mass of our sun. The millions of stars in our galaxy are trapped, along with their planets-and countless other fragments of planets orbiting this massive gravity well. The Earth is geologically an unstable place to live and could be broken apart by space junk the size of Europe tomorrow.
Try to be thankful for the joy you've been allowed thus far and remain open to the joy in each moment that remains. Each day holds it's own wondrous gift. Remain able to see more than what has passed.
Your future is waiting for your embrace.
2007-02-19 19:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
easily no longer. at the beginning, you're able to be getting married to the guy who you're intimate with.Then possibly your spouse won't have those emotional controlling behaviors. She isn't value you and in case you like somebody to admire then you you definately could provide up her from utilising you. because of the fact of course you like her greater desirable than she loves you. you're able to bypass away her by myself because of the fact she would be in a position to easily deliver you heart soreness. If she does no longer admire you recognize then she would be in a position to no longer admire you lots sooner or later till she provide up cheating and alter her habit. I additionally do no longer think of that this relationship you had together with her in any respect is on the component of being wholesome. You had to referred to as the law enforcement officers on her? To me it incredibly is definetely no longer widely used in any respect. So what did she do so which you would be able to try this? i'm advantageous that it became into some thing too severe, and that i'm thinking which you only observed the exterior of her habit.yet once you prefer to bypass with your thoughts and not what your concepts is telling then you you definately will only get what she has been showing you. and that's her actual self. now sturdy success.
2016-11-24 19:40:37 · answer #2 · answered by kemmer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let him go and never contact him again. It sounds like he is trying have a relationship with the mother of his child and that is (hopefully) a good thing, at least for his daughter's sake. Also, he is not a reliable partner since he cheated. I would be done with him and find someone who will be faithful and won't lie to you.
2007-02-19 18:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by Hypatia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is a jerk. Why are you accepting crappy treatment from him? He obviously does not love you, if he is leaving you for a one night stand. I think you should forget about him and move on. He walked all over you because he does not love you; he isn't embarassed, otherwise, he would not be doing what he's doing to you.
2007-02-19 19:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by Muga Wa Kabbz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an a ss. He sounds like trash and so does his "one night stand girlfriend." Screw him...I would totally try to get over him if I were you.
2007-02-19 18:55:48 · answer #5 · answered by Wendy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your x is a JERK. Stop being a door mat for the guy and move on.
2007-02-19 18:57:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋