I have been dating this guy from india for about 3 weeks. He was wanting to date me for a while and I finally decided to see him. He is recently divorced. I was skeptical in dating him because people have mentioned that he is a womanizer but once you get to know him he really isn't. He does like to flirt but what man doesn't. He came over to my house on Friday night and then he asked me if it would be ok if he
we took care of his son. We had a great weekend! Today (Monday) he started to act weird. I gave him a call this morning and he seemed upset. He said that he was busy and then I called him this evening and his behavior was weird now. He said that he regrets spending time with me and that I asked him too many questions. Now I called his phone and his voice mail was recorded by a woman's voice, which sounds like his ex wife. I am not sure what is going on. His behavior feels weird. What should I do?
2007-02-19 18:39:29 · 8 answers · asked by Belinda C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go out and buy a lottery ticket - you are soooo lucky to have found these things out about this guy so early in your relationship.
Erase him from your life - you dodged a bullet!
2007-02-19 18:45:30 · answer #1 · answered by Stan W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, apparently he didn't have such a great time like you thought. Or his wife came home! Since you have already called twice, and now you are getting the recorder with his wife's voice, I would not give him the time of day! Your not a beggar! I think you have just been had tho. I am sure sooner or later you will see him around. Let him come to you. Men that treat females this way, aren't worth your time -how disrespectful!!
2007-02-20 02:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm, what do you mean, what should you do?
He doesn't want to be in a relationship with you and he's got another woman recording his voicemail. There really aren't a lot of options for "what to do" when someone doesn't want to be with you. What you "do," is you move on. Not that it's easy, but that is about the only option presented to you. Good luck.
2007-02-20 02:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by maxximumjoy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously?! You were obviously tricked. People do not get a womanizer tag for no reason. Do not call him again.
2007-02-20 02:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by GranolaGurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my guess is u either gave up the booty, or his ex got super jealous of u getting to spend time with the kid.
2007-02-20 03:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are questioning it and he is acting like that now, what is it going to be like later on? probably not going to change. i would end it now!
2007-02-20 02:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by Maymie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bail out fast
2007-02-20 02:42:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has problems and you should stay away from him.
2007-02-20 02:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋