are we just friends?

Question

there's this guy who is a good friend of mine

but there's something about him that i felt is different compared to other guy friends. i want to be closer to him and it feels awkward if we don't talk much. but i feel it's difficult to get close to him.

i'm a bit worried. do u think i wanted to get close just because i wanted us to become best friends or do u think i'm a homosexual? coz i'm worried that i am gay. but i don't think i am. so what do u think?

Answer 1

Sounds like you are infatuated with him. If you're still attracted to women, you might be bisexual. If you're not attracted to women, you just might be gay. Feelings of attraction don't just have to be sexual, but if you can see yourself going to the next level, you are DEFINITELY attracted to him. If you don't feel sexual towards him right now, there's still a chance you could be gay because sometimes crushes start off where you just think about the person all the time and want to be near them...and the thoughts progress to more. Only you know...or if you don't know, you will in time. But I say don't worry too much if you are gay because being gay is fine (it just sucks if your friend doesn't feel the same way...I've been there myself). I hope it works out for you!

Answer 2

it's normal
sometimes i had the same feeling like you do
i want to be closer with one of my friend
and if she did't talk to me 1 day!
it feels like a year
it is so terrible!!!
so i don't think you are a guy!!!
just be more closer to him
don't worry i support you
^^