Two of my best friends and I are getting together one day this week to discover ways to get revenge on two guys in our grade. They are both young teens in 8th grade and very openly gross. We want to teach them a lesson so that they never talk that way again (remarking about s in graphic terms and such.) They both like me or one of my best friends, so that could help. What could my friends and I do to get revenge on 14 year olds so that they are not depressed or hurt, but taught a lesson or at least to feel like we got payback?
2007-02-19 18:10:16 · 15 answers · asked by giving. 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Don't stoop down to their level. Revenge is not a way to deal with them. Not only could it backfire, it could seriously end up hurting you or your friend.
Instead ignore those attention seekers...boys at that age "try" to be cool and "manly" - no doubt their fathers are to blame.
Report the comments to a teacher...that will get them in check so that they know it's not appreciated.
You are a young lady that should respected.
2007-02-19 18:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by beverleekumar 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is what keeps the countries in the Middle East at war after thousands of years. You can never just "teach someone a lesson they won't forget" without just making them want to get back at you, harder.
Just ignore them, if you can. They'll outgrow the "gross" stage in another year or two. High school does wonders that way.
2007-02-20 03:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge for a boy who is so obviously trying to get attention is to either;
a) Ignore them. Pay attention to the boys who are behaving themselves and treating you nicely, even if it means walking in the halls with a nerdy boy or the fat boy. (Trust me ladies, you want to date the nerds anyway, they will make more money and have better job security in the future!) If these two boys want your attention they will figure it out. Then they'll treat you like the priceless treasures you are!
b) Tell a teacher what they are saying and how offensive it is. This should make them stop, and it has the added benefit of getting exactly what they want, attention. Albeit it's not the kind of attention they hoped to get! But, like they say, be careful what you wish for . . .
2007-02-19 18:26:51 · answer #3 · answered by Bonnie 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
the best revenge to a guy who likes you but you don't like him and he is being inappropriate is to give him no attention at all if you give him attention or show that he got to you at all he may think you like him back and that is not what you want you want him to go away right? when he says inappropriate things to you just look him in the eyes and say
"that is not how a man would talk to a women"
then just walk away
2007-02-19 20:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a losser to even put up with this or to want to *revenge* the ways you were wrong. Just let it go and stop even giving them a reaction. You must not mind they way they talk. A normal person would have cut off all contact from these nasty little boys. I think you have a crush on one or both and becuase of that you want to add more drama to the situation. Stop giving them a reaction, dont talk to them. Once they see you are put off by their actions they may realize what dumb ***' they are and stop
2007-02-19 18:58:19 · answer #5 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You say that they like you and your friend. Boys will do things to make girls that they like like them. When they say something gross, tell them that it's disgusting and offensive, and don't laugh at all. Let them know you don't find it funny. They will either leave you alone or change their ways. I'm starting a new teen advice site if you would like to check it out. http://www.geocities.com/teenadviceonline
2007-02-19 20:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Act like a 14 yr old not a 4 yr old.
2007-02-20 06:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by Sasha 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you spend your life trying to get payback, you will become a bitter, unlovable husk. Move on, and make better choices next time.
2007-02-20 02:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grow up and be the better people. That will teach them.
2007-02-20 03:24:08 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah revange is not good....just if u want to get them back you should pull a lil prank on them to make them embaressed or sonthing
2007-02-19 18:18:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋