what do men look for in a woman?

Question

I was just wondering what guys looked for in a woman.

Answer 1

I’m a woman but your question, thank you, does not seem to exclude the opinion of women so here’s my answer.

First, I would like to congratulate Kent for his very hot answer that made me all a flutter. He seems to have the right attitude how to make women feel the right way. On the other hand, James who seems to be a very nice guy but who’s looking for a woman who’s willing to do anything he wants sexually at any time is surely on the wrong track. James, unless you’re really Johnny Depp or you would be willing to pay for a hooker, dream on…(also I checked out the Youtube video and it was…hello! cellulite? Maybe it’s your thing, as long as she’s willing, right?).

That said, I know men are more visual than women so the physical appearance is somewhat important. Not so for women who could chose a decrepit old man just because he’s a billionaire. Woman like financial security and will love whoever provide that for them, hoping he will die soon so they can then get the hot younger guys, lol...

Men very often do not need the financial security from women so they are just looking for someone with whom they can have sex on a regular basis, who can cook, take care of their house and bear their children. If she’s good looking, this is even better because they want to impress their friends with their beautiful wife. But be careful, guys, if you chose a beautiful wife, she will be high maintenance, and you will have to spend a lot of money on her and I hope you can have separate bathrooms because she will really spend hours in there. She will need the Spa, the Gym, the trainer, the tennis instructor, she will need to have her hair done by professionals, her nails too, she will need up to date fashionable clothes and imported expensive leather shoes and tons of make-up and cosmetic surgery when the first wrinkles show up…and then you will trade her for a younger model if needed….

Ok, I will try to be serious now. The first thing a man looks for in a woman is her willingness to have sex with him.
Imagine a guy and two women: one woman is past her prime but she wants the guy in a really bad way, she’s aching for it. The other is young and beautiful but the last thing she wants is to have sex with the guy. Who do you think the guy should choose? If he chooses the young and beautiful woman, he will get nowhere because she does not want to have anything to do with him. If he chooses the older one he will have her and that is ultimately what he wants, to get laid really.

So the first thing a man looks for in a woman is her willingness to have sex with him and that is why there is all those things about romance and dating and flowers and gifts and Valentines, blah blah blah so men can courtship the women they want so the women would want them in return. It is like in the animal kingdom: the most colorful animals are always the male, the most colorful birds are always the male (peacock…). The female is just looking around, waiting to be swept away. Same for humans, really. The men are always ready but they need to get the women in the mood.

Ultimately, what do men look for in a woman is simplicity. They need a woman, on a regular basis, because of their need to have sex on a regular basis. The dating and the courtship and the mind games are too much for guys who spend most of their time working and making money. They need to get home and just relax with a nice woman who will listen to all their problems and comfort them. That woman may or may not be the mother of his children. She will take care of all the little pesky things of life like the credit card bills and the kids lunch money or the need for a new fridge. That woman, young or old, will not care what she looks like because she knows she’s a beautiful person inside and always will be.

Young or old, her skin will be so soft and warm when he reaches for it in the middle of the night.

Answer 2

This is a good question! The answer keeps changing with the man's age. When young, the looks (face, curves, hair, eyes, smile...) are the thing looked for. After you settle down for a while in the relationship and live together, the way the house is kept, the food...(the looks are still important but you get used to that). As you grow old, you look for understanding and forgiving (not digging up all the old injuries and insults).

Answer 3

Booyow. Alright, what do I look for? Physically? I love thick and veloptuous women. Mostly a willingness to do anything sexually is THE BIGGEST TURN ON. As well as having a nice booty, chest, and face. Also, at this point, I like a girl with status, for some reason the idea would turn me on to have achieved her and have some type of exclusivity, but thats definately not as important as willingness to do anything I want sexually at any time. If I could find that I'd be crazy over her, she'd have to not be ugly though, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. As long as shes exiteable and willing to do anything at any time, thats what makes the perfect girl for me. And also since you answered my question (thank you) and you really wanna get a good idea physically what I as a guy like go to Youtube.com and search: big booty white and the first video (11 sec.) is the exact example of what the eye of this beholder digs. lol. peace, thank you.

Answer 4

Its cause were the extra aggressive gender. We get to the factor and we assess out who were focused on. Its the entire evolutionary thing coming into play. We're extra of a multimate setup and lady are more of a single mate setup. That how we are ready to hold on lookin. Plus the ladies we like keep the equal age but we hold on getting older. Rape does occur with ladies but no as much as vice versa. Once we are pals with a girl (esp an appealing woman) we invariably will go for the possibility to lay the pipe if given other intelligent if she ugly then have been just gonna be neighbors. I wouldnt say fall in love. Men are more visual then ladies so physical appears matter rather more for us you then girls. Finish over end, we just developed one of a kind then you definitely. And our objectives will also be very exceptional then yours hence main to misunderstandings and misconceptions.

Answer 5

After first contact I look for a woman who does not expect me to read their minds. Never could never will be able to. If you like something say so if not say so. Mind games tend to make me walk. On that note I also like the outdoor/active type. Where both of us will be willing to try new stuff, like diving, camping etc.

Answer 6

Its reason have been the greater aggressive gender. We get to the factor and we inspect who have been attracted to. Its the entire evolutionary element getting into play. we are greater of a multimate setup and lady are greater of a single mate setup. That how we are waiting to maintain on lookin. Plus the ladies persons we adore stay the comparable age yet we shop on getting old. Rape does take place with women persons yet no as much as vice versa. as quickly as we are friends with a girl (esp an suited female) we consistently will decide for the prospect to place the pipe if given different smart if she grotesque then have been purely gonna be friends. I wouldnt say fall in love. adult men are greater seen then women persons so actual seems count number plenty greater for us then you definately women. end over end, we purely geared up different then you definately. And our targets would be very different then yours for this reason greatest to misunderstandings and misconceptions.

Answer 7

Looks catch my eye personality keeps you there. Looks i like blondes long hair. Height 5 foot to 5.5 .( 100 to 135 Pounds) ( im 6 foot). 34 B and bigger Cup size. Now to the most important personality HUMOR, knows when to leave you alone when needed. affection is a must. manners.

Answer 8

Ideals are very hard to find. A woman doesn't have to act according to what men want. Be yourself. sooner or later there would be someone who sees you as his ideal woman.

Answer 9

Everything and nothing- some guys who are looking for traits- the traits they want can be ANYTHING. The guys who look for nothing - they don't seek out specific qualities in women, yes, they do exist.

Answer 10

almost everything, every inch from head to toes.