As a girl, what do you lust for most in a guy? Muscles? A kind character? Leadership? Intelligence? Style? Vulnerability? Emotional strength?
2007-02-19 17:56:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Chocolate, and his willingness to share.
2007-02-20 12:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A sense of security. Women subconsciously will choose the male that is strong in character (so that she can't walk all over him), strong physically (as to produce healthy strong babies). This is all in the subconscious though. Outwardly, women are attracted to all those things you mentioned, though vulnerability would be last on the list. You may ask why a woman wouldn't want to walk all over her man? Because years down the road when she realizes that she is wearing the pants in the family, she will start to wish that she didn't and it will be the man's fault. Women are wierd because they are ruled by emotion. Go figure.
2007-02-23 08:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by Starjumper the R&S Cow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My lustful side wants a man with a broad,hairy chest & about 6'2",not musclebound,but well built & lean.Black or light brown hair,soft,kissable lips,& not a drinker or a smoker.
My moral side,just wants a nice guy who is respectful of me & doesn't drink or smoke,& can satisfy my emotional needs as well as physical.
2007-02-19 18:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by Frogmama2007 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do not know what "girls" lust for because I am a woman, but anyway......
I fell in love with my husband because he is intelligent, gentle, kind, sweet, thoughtful, handsome, understanding, loving and on top of all that he is a feminist too.
I had dated so many macho guys who bragged about winning fights, so it was refreshing when he told me he had never been in a fight, and didn't believe in using violence unnecessarily.
2007-02-19 18:05:51 · answer #4 · answered by Seraphim 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look decent, be clean and have a good personality. which is to say - be who you are, you'll find a girl eventually.
if you're just asking because you're promiscuis or want to be seen as 'that really hot guy' that stuff doesnt last forever. but love can. im not saying flings are evil or something, just that being yourself gives way better results for good relationships.
2007-02-21 14:11:17 · answer #5 · answered by Jayce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it just depends on the girl. But, yeah, all of that and more. Someone who is manly, but not macho. No jealousy.
If I had to pick one quality that you mentioned, I would say, emotional strength.
2007-02-19 18:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by MoMoney23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lust for a man with a good paying career.
2007-02-21 10:28:53 · answer #7 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm no longer a girl yet a girl. i admire a guy with a humorousness,and a style heart. A bypass t enables too with some muscle. management isn't significant to me. and grace is effectual/ I had to instruct my husband the thank you to dress!!
2016-10-16 01:54:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honest, gentle, emotional strength, leader. And I got him, too! Plus he has muscles and he's handsome, and he still opens doors for me after almost eight years together.
2007-02-23 02:49:17 · answer #9 · answered by Mad About Purple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have a weird obsession with hands.. ( good example, I dont like leonardo decaprio's hands. They are too much like a little boy.) I also like men who are protective but not insecure. Funny and quirky guys are always ok in my book. But I always look at their hands first.
2007-02-19 18:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The alpha male with emotional strength, maturity, and doesnt take himself too seriously.And good cologne helps.
2007-02-19 18:04:51 · answer #11 · answered by t 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋