As a girl, what do you lust for most in a guy? Muscles? A kind character? Leadership? Intelligence? Style?
2007-02-19 17:55:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Sometimes I think people give bull answers to these questions. They always make it sound like dating is a Miss/Mr. America pageant.
Girls like one thing the most, over everything else: feeling wanted. They like feeling lusted after.
Don't worry about looks, because my sister broke up with someone who weighed 120, then broke up with someone who weighed around 150, now she's with a guy over 300 lbs. Most girls aren't incredibly shallow.
As long as you don't seem too arrogant, and genuinely show an interest in her, I'm almost positive you'll win her over.
Good luck, sweetie!
2007-02-19 18:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by Furr. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a girl but a lady. I like a man with a sense of humor,and a kind heart. A go t helps too with some muscle. Leadership is not important to me. And style is helpful/ I had to teach my husband how to dress!!
2007-02-19 18:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman I would say it depends on the guy but mostly a combo of personality, looks, smell and sociability. But it has a lot to do with how that person interacts with me. A person who is subtle and has the art of flirting down pat will be on my mind MUCH more then the calendar ready super hunk who spends more time looking in the mirror then at anyone else.
Well spoken, intelligent, socially adept, smells good, bright eyes, mannerly and a charmer will keep my attention....
2007-02-19 18:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by Noota Oolah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for me, I can either go for a really built guy (who's hopefully not too tall, because I'm short and feel uncomfortable around any guy who's over 5'10"), who's a sort of macho personality, and a good sense of humor. OR I can go for the skinny guy, who's maybe a little nerdy, intelligent, and wants to listen to me, whether I'm going crazy, or just feel like sharing how my day went.
2007-02-19 18:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by Morbid Angel21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love guys with a crazy sense of humour and who I can have fun with as if they are just one of my mates. I have a weakness for thin guys (60-80kg) but with muscles,and I like it if they are shortish, I'm only 5'3" so I don't like really tall guys.
The guys I am with have to be cuddly and touchy feely people because I am affectionate- they MUST cuddle me at night :)
My soft spot is for guys younger than me- its something about that cheekiness and humour that I love, I'm 21 nearly 22 so I usually go for about 19 year olds
2007-02-19 19:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by renee.emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a sense of protection. women human beings subconsciously will opt for the male it truly is solid in personality (so as that she will be able to't walk throughout him), solid bodily (as to produce healthful solid toddlers). that is all contained in the subconscious although. Outwardly, women human beings have an interest in all those belongings you reported, although vulnerability might want to be very last on the record. you could ask why a lady does no longer opt for to stroll throughout her guy? because years down the line at the same time as she realizes that she is wearing the pants contained in the relations, she will be able to start up to wish that she did not and that is going to likely be the guy's fault. women human beings are wierd because they are ruled by emotion. bypass figure.
2016-10-17 08:11:17 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn`t call it lust, but I like an intelligent man with enough money to indulge my whims and knows how to treat me like a lady. I admire confidence and a sense of humor and last, but not least, honesty. A man that has those qualities........Wow !!!
2007-02-19 18:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by flamingo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a teen. Honesty, Trust, Humor, Responsibility, Patience, Determination, Caring, common sense, and strong minded.
2007-02-19 18:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by Bu Tran 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
defined muscles. they dont' have to be big but defined. one with a sense of humor. a guy who will just go up and say hi for no reason. girls love that! (john tucker must die?)some one who is not sociallly awkward. i love a smart guy...but not geeky smart. like good common sense, and works hard. a guy who is not a jerk to other guys, but is very sweet and caring. NOT COCKY. i hate that. someone who really listens.
2007-02-19 18:11:01 · answer #9 · answered by dazzlefazzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all it takes is a body that doesn't look like a 10 year olds. Also Nerds are the funnest.. by the way I'm not a nerd.
2007-02-19 18:02:26 · answer #10 · answered by smoky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋