my friend is married since 6 years she has 2 kids but now she has another man in her life.she takes good care of her family but as far as love is concerned she loves another man is this possible??
2007-02-19 17:52:54 · 21 answers · asked by jasmine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NOT good for anything!!!
2007-02-20 22:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by ar.samy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, anything is possible. She can have as many men in her life as she wants, BUT will her husband like it? I don't think so. If he doesn't mind when he finds out, he a fool for sharing. I hope your friend is prepared to pay the consequences for her actions? She has two children too, that's pretty selfish of her, just to throw the whole thing away for an affair. Well, she's a big girl, and I hope she knows what she's doing. If it was an OK thing, don't you think all of us married people would be doing it? For some odd reason, it just doesn't go over good!!!
2007-02-20 01:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by sue d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, yes. Oh, yes. I'm there. I wouldn't have thought so 10 yrs ago but now I know it is possible. There are different kinds of love. There is family love where you love a man because you have been with him a long time. So that's love in a family way. Then there's the all consuming passionate, romantic love. That's being IN love with someone. Yes, they can both exist at the same time.
2007-02-20 02:01:02 · answer #3 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Jasmine,
This is ignorant. What she is doing is against GOD's instructions and it certainly is going to mess the children up if it hasn't already. Children know so much more than we give them credit for. They may be more incitful about this relationship then you are right now. That will eventually come back and mess up the children's lives. She certainly is not using her head for much more than a hat holder.
Eds
2007-02-20 02:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by Eds 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is very possible and it is usually becuase she was young when she got married. they look after there family but the new man is dangerous and fun that is why she longs for him. her husband is safe and steady but now she wants adventure and excitment that is why she has a new man yes she loves them both but both in different ways
2007-02-20 05:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by persian gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no... as her life will be in stress completely.. her husband will never take this and when the kids grow old what type of character they will think of her mother? ask her to work out on her marraige and still if she finds it impossible to do so then ask her to divorce her huby and marry the other man, but sailing in 2 boats, will drown her.
2007-02-20 02:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by jana s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking if its possible, as in "emotionally", Yes! it just depends on how she is going to handle this friendship -
It's only when she starts cheating and going off track with things that this would cause worry.
2007-02-20 03:04:24 · answer #7 · answered by anjalee79059 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her love is profound, uncontrollable, unlimited & boundless. Hindu diety Draupadi had five 5 husbands at the same time. Polyandry & extra marital relations are bad.
In India, wife’s sexual intercourse with other/s is no offence, hence no prosecution or punishment to her. After divorce also her husband is bound to maintain or pay (if unable) till she remarries, even if she is permanently / continuously enjoying sex with all other/s. Pre marital sexual experiences (intercourse / coitus) with other/s cannot be a ground to seek divorce under Hindu/Special Marriage Act. Thus a female’s physical sexual relations with persons/s of her choice (with their consent) is not an offence or prohibited / barred in any Indian law and she is at liberty to enjoy SEX freely and fearlessly. A male’s physical sexual relations with any 16+ female (with her consent) is no offence or barred / prohibited in any Indian Law, unless she is in the wedlock of somebody else and is done knowing her wedlock and without her husband’s consent or connivance. Courts are bound to believe that all children born during the wedlock (or within 280 days of court's divorce judgment/ decree) are her husband’s legitimate ones. He is bound to maintain or pay them expenses, till sons are 18+ and daughters are married. Prostitution (commercial sex trade, offering sex for monetary gain) alone is an offence punishable in Indian laws.
All unwed sexual activities (pre/post/extra marital), homosexual acts, & other perverted sexual acts are specifically forbidden in Islam. In Islam, unwed voluntary sexual intercourse also is a great sin and heinous crime against government/society punishable with publicly lashing/ death by pelting stones.
2007-02-20 02:28:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jasmine, I think this question is not for ur friend here, but its ur own life. Pls dont take it otherwise.......u have to see 4 urself wht good is going to come up from such a relation, as its ur life...attached to ur kids and ur hubby. We r human and such things comes up knowingly or un-knowingly.
keep praying!!
2007-02-20 04:48:18 · answer #9 · answered by chetan02_in 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well scientific explntion is:pituitary hormones r responsible 4 what we call love btween m n f & these hormones' duration of action is 2 yr(max) then its all responsibility.
this is a case of 6 yr,
very much possible,
wat do u think
2007-02-20 02:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by Who cares 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
normally
if a have two guys means can get problem in life but not so
if a married woman have two guys means it arise of more problems
at first it is a sameful think
should have desition to live in a right way
just give good advice to your friend please
2007-02-20 02:16:56 · answer #11 · answered by fervej 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋