looking back my past days , my judgement and decision were much better than those of others, but I followed others opinons, the results were terrible.
I know I am not the only one.
why did we make such a mistake, what should we do not to repeat such a mistake?
2007-02-19 17:49:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
because, dude, deep down every man knows he is not trustworthy.
it's called Angst or Despair or Dread. or Guilt.
live with it, and go with what everyone else does, and if that means becoming a sheep, so be it
2007-02-19 17:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by the_supreme_father 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Very simply stated lack of confidence.
There are many reasons for lack of confidence. Lack of confidence may manifest itself as low or poor self esteem, however the lack of knowledge and experience "aka wisdom" is what leads us to seek the opinions of others.
In regard to your question about not repeating the mistake of trusting others you need to keep in mind, that while your experience of trusting other peoples opinions have resulted poorly, this has been YOUR experience, following the opinions and advice of others can result in positive experiences as well.
In a nutshell... Research and ask smarter people their opinions. Ultimately YOU are the one who makes the decision, even if someone else suggested it.
2007-02-19 18:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by M M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if we are in bad situation we tend to not think clearly and then it is wise to ask others for help and guidance but it is important that you ask more than one person to get a better idea and in the end you have to make our own decision
Others should only give you advice and guidance and not make decision for you
2007-02-19 23:35:36 · answer #3 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are born completely dependent upon others. Since our primary purpose in life is to become more aware of whom we are in essence, it is necessary that we have many learning experiences. As we make more of our own decisions and experience the consequences of those decisions we gain confidence in our ability to make correct decisions ourself rather than trusting in another who really cannot now our inner mind.
2007-02-19 18:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by stedyedy 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes happens if you are a little insicure and keep more safety from your friends.
Yes you're not the only one, but i think it's naturally to listen other opinions, especially from the persons close to you.
More difficult instead is choose the best solution: thought from you or not thought from you.
Experiences and time help you to find better way of life...
Ciao!
2007-02-19 18:07:21 · answer #5 · answered by Magic§Sùuna 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen man ya aint got confidance in your self. One point in anyones life they might follow the others openion. Just try to have confidance in ur self. Try to see day both side for the question before u think an ans. So u need to trust ur self man. Stop listening 2 others opnion. Try to listen to ur self!!!
2007-02-19 18:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by gunzforthugz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have confidence in your own judgement.
2007-02-19 17:56:58 · answer #7 · answered by It Co$t To Be Around The Bo$$ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
we are ordained to co exist with mutual help to one another
2007-02-19 18:31:47 · answer #8 · answered by hari prasad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋