If you hurt someone very badly?

Question

emotionally that you made them cry alot...how would you feel??
And it was the worst way u could of hurt this person?
I was hurt deeply , instead of an apology... this person won't even...cant even talk to me! Ashamed, sad, how do you think this person feels?

Answer 1

Obviously very bad for hurting you.....can't bear to talk to you...probably tearing them up inside....Sorry to hear you were hurt in the worst way....stay strong...they may eventually get the courage to apologize.

Answer 2

This is sad but for a while they felt complete and whole when they did that I might even say a sense of rush. After it is all said and done they then felt empty. They really don't care for your feelings because they would have stopped before it got to that point. Also remember that they might also did it because they realized it to late. Key thing here is that you control how you feel and not anyone else. Your emotions come from inside you they are put in there by anyone else. You are choosing to feel bad. Treat it has a learning experience you better of for it. Also if judge their actions they speak louder than words. Really what does it matter how they feel why do you care they don't give a flying horses behind about your feelings. If they did any of those things they would tell you.

Answer 3

I understand how you feel. It has happened to me. People are different, this particular person you're talking about, may be ashamed or pleased, goes both way, cause we don't know the person. But no matter what, if a person has high qualities and well mannered, specially with conscience, would never forget that, he/she has heart some ones feeling and after some time would approach and make it right, cause, no body with a good conscience could live with such an memory. So it's up to you to evaluate.

Answer 4

I have the same problem at the moment, my hubby wont even talk to me. He hasn't said a word to me today. I usually phone him when I get to work but I didn't even bother.
Your person is probably ashamed of hurting you my hubby does this all the time.

Answer 5

You'd have to ask that person how she/he feels. No one else could possibly know. I will cut you off at the knees in a heartbeat and if you aren't someone in my very small circle of immediate family - hubby, kids, grandchild - I will never admit I was wrong or even care that I hurt your feelings. That's how the ball bounces, Babe!

Answer 6

This person I think, based on experience, is ashamed of what she has done to you. She probably regreted hurting you and she probabbly thinks you won't accept an apology. Sometimes when we're mad we say and do things we actually don't mean.

Answer 7

I can only tell you how i would feel cuz i dont know how that one person felt..but If im trying to hurt someone on purpose its to either have that person hate me and leave me alone or cuz i had to do it

Answer 8

maybe this person is trying to convince themself that they werent wrong because thats easier than living with the guilt. sometimes im sorry doesnt cut it. if i hurt someone very badly i would try to justify it ( i wouldnt do it for no reason!!) but i would also make it up to them. somehow. good luck.

Answer 9

If it wasn't out of anger it would be ok for you to tell them politely your feelings are hurt and would like to straighten the matter out.

Answer 10

Pretty bad, i would say.But maybe in time it will sort its self out.if not,then you could try saying your sorry to her/him that many times that they will listen to you.This may be NOT the answer,but its worth a try,hope this helps a little,shane c.