A guy friend (A) keeps cautioning me about another guy (B) who wrote A some prank mails behind my back. A keeps telling me that B is a cheap person and always warns me to be careful of B. Do you think A is trying to be a real friend who's very concerned about whom I befriend? Or you have different opinions on this? Please share with me what you think of this. Thanks a lot.
2007-02-19 17:24:31 · 5 answers · asked by CRT 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
HI,
My first thought was ...have you seen these "prank" mails yourself...also what is the content...attention grabbing funny or mean , complimentary???...and most importantly are you certain whatever the content that B did indeed write them?
OK after having said that....I have to answer in more than one way since the content and author of the mail is not known by me. so here goes...remember as with anyone this is just my opinion ..and that is speculating...but at times with our intuition we can be right on target. First of all I don't think anyone who gossips is to be listened to .....A is assinating B's character he could easily warn you without saying bad things about him ...he could be making it all up because he wants you for himself.....or he could just be a mean trouble causing guy. If you feel strongly about getting to know b ...dont let this a fellow stop you ..dont be a blind sheep ...use your own judgement ...if you don't feel that strongly about b , and you don't feel strongly about a either ...I suggest you find some more healthy friends ...ones that do not attack each other behind their backs by gossip or writtings mails about others . The whole situation sounds fishy to me my answer is stay away from both , there are tons and tons of people in this world and you should KNOW where you stand with them if a or b was a friend a real friend ...you wouldnt be asking about a real friend on yahoo or to anyone . You wont need to second guess a real friend ...they may not be correct all the time but they will be honest. One more thing always remember if a person will talk to you about someone else behind thier back it is a gaurantee they are talking about YOU to someone eles behind YOUR back!!! You deserve some real friends ....and good things are worth waiting for if you have to...i wish you the best life has to offer ....be happy ...it is a choice we make ...not something that happens to us .....take care.
PEACE
2007-02-19 18:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by KorvetteKaren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would listen to his cautions and make my own observations.
A may be sincere about B. If you have contact or conversations with B listen and decide for yourself.
Perception is alway important and A may perceive things different from the way you see them. It is also possible neither of you will correctly assess what makes B tick.
In the end you will have to draw your own conclusions. Always be a little careful around people you don't know very well and by very well I mean about as well as you know members of your own family.
2007-02-20 02:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This Question was kinda confusing lol. But what I think is that Guy (A) is probably jealous of Ur friendship with guy B or maybe guy B is a jerk and guy A is just trying to warn u. Any how which ever is the case I hope you get to the bottom of it good luck.
2007-02-20 01:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by OneSexyPeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to know Both of them better!! @8-)
2007-02-20 01:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he's just lookig out for you and your feelings. sounds like a good friend to me!
2007-02-20 01:29:02 · answer #5 · answered by young, hot, and Aussie! (chick) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋