What can i do to feel beautiful(physically and mentaly)?

Question

i feel ugly...im 103 5 like 2 or 3 and i have fairly stylish clothes...i mean i have some of the AE A&F all tht...nyway i just feel ugly....i used 2 feel worse bout myself and feel terrible but currently its inbetween...i no im not horribly off i just feel like no1 likes me...i feel like i have no friends and clingy(like a lil puppy dof fallowing around ppl) well i think im ok looking and i no i have friends bu i just dont feel like it...almost like im the richest person w/ vrything but im blind and i cant c tht i have this stuff) = i just want 2 feel beautiful and actually b liked....i really need help PLZ!!!(sry if this is repetitive or confusing its really hard 4 me 2 explain my situation)

i mean 103 pounds 5' 2" or 3" in height

ok let me refrase this.... i am 103 pounds 5 foot 2 or so.... i feel ugly mainly mentaly but partialy phyicaly.... i have fairly stylish clothes(A&F AE Hollister) but i still feel like im ugly....heres my situation(the 1st is reality the 2nd is wat i feel)....i have a lot of friends-i feel unliked and like a third wheel....i no im not horrible looking-i feel like im repulsive and am nvr happy w/ the way i look...-my friends and non-friends have told me im not a total and complete loser-i feel like a total and complete loser....there r other things tht bother me and i just cant accept reallity i fell almost like im the richest person ever w/ vrything but im blind, deft and parallized and i cant c, hear, touch, enjoy this stuff tht i have) = i just want 2 feel beautiful in vryway






o and i wear make-up which helps a lot w/ my self confidence but it just isn't enough...plz help

Answer 1

Maybe you should talk to your Dr. about being depressed. He can help you with people to talk to and maybe even some anti-depressants, if you are willing to try that. You could even talk to your school counsler. This is something that needs to be addressed by more than answers from just a few strangers. Try keeping a journal, and write all you feelings in it, and maybe after writing, or typing, the root of the problem will appear. That is what I like to do. Working out will also boost your self esteem, but be careful, you are rather thin. Just remember that your friends are friends with you for a reason, and if this many strangers are responding to your question and care, then your friends will too, and much more.

Answer 2

Hi your question wasn't too confusing however, you do contradict yourself with each statement that you make.

You need to be kinder to yourself and take note of your name here and have some "funinthesun" hey. You can make yourself feel more beautiful by looking after yourself, start with treating yourSELF as you would a beloved friend, give some time to yourself, listen to yourself and do something nice for just you. Get to know who you are funinthesun, and replace any negative thought with a positive one - say the exact opposite to what you told yourself so that you re-inforce how good you are.

You could treat your body to fresh foods a nice healthy delish meal, and a long bath and do an at home hair treatment. That could make you feel beautiful and all the while think of all the things you like about yourself, there is only ONE YOU so bring out who you are - be true to yourself and then you will find friends who share similar energy to yours and never care what others think - all that does is re-inforce negative thinking.

Spend time getting to know yourself funinthesun and don't worry so much life's too short. Anyway most people feel insecure at some point in their lives - you'll be ok if you just say "hey I'm ok just the way I am" and remember beauty is really only skin deep, let your inner beauty and confidence shine through and you will be seen as beautiful - it's all in the eyes.

Chin up - chill out and smile Ok.
I used to worry about stuff like that still do sometimes but DONT just live and whos image are you trying to live up to anyway?
Love life live life be a joy to have around!

Answer 3

Your appearance seems fine to me - really cute. You seem to have supportive friends, too. It seems that you don't like yourself very much, though, and I'm sure there's no reason for that.
Are you going through some stressful times?
Do you have anyone to talk to about them?
Self confidence comes from within.
It helps to think always of other people and be interested in listening to them. Then you'll find you don't think of yourself so much, and you'll be a fun person to be around.
Life is short, so make the most of it:-)

Answer 4

In a way I understand what you are going through but no can truly understand you but you. You have to take the time to take care and apperciated yourself in order for others to like you.If you do not love yourself how can you expect someone else to.It is okay to be alone then to be clingy to people who feel like you are going to bring them down.All you need is yourself,family and god others will come eventually in time, so give your situation time in during that time get to know you.

Answer 5

you have to believe in yourself and think you are beautiful before you can do anything on the outside... after you take care of the inside, concentrate on making sure your skin is in good condition and that your hair is well moisturized... also, you are beautiful because God made you and if people around you try to tell you that you are not, they are not worth being around anyways...so go out into the world with confidence and your head held high because you control the world!

Answer 6

Everyone has something they don't like about themselves. But you just have to overcome that, and think about the positive things about yourself. After awhile of constantly thinking about being ugly, you may become depressed, and than you will need counsiling.

Answer 7

hit the GYM
It is the best thing because exercise reduces fat so u look leaner and trimmer it also has various other benefits like general good health and increase in strength. on the mental side exercise produces hormones called endorphins which make i happy and satisfied so there will be aglow in ur face.

Answer 8

Just be strong and know that you wont feel like this forever. You are yong and this is acutally just a part of growing up. Find something that you really like to do, or listen to music. That's what got me through it. Hopefully ou find something that inspires you :)

Answer 9

you can tell your self that your beautiful and even when someone else tells you your not, you just tell yourself that you are!